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If you keep chasing the guy, you're not respecting yourself. If he were interested, he'd let you know. So grow up about matters. Chances are there's another guy at that gym or in your circle of friends who is interested in you and you don't even know it.
A big no? Perhaps I need a big wake up call/slap me in the face.
^^^ This!! Geez... girl. Work on your self esteem and don't be so desperate. Men don't want desperate women. They thread desperate women like crap, because they know those women would endure everything.
If he broke up with his GF and were interested in you, he would contact you.
Also guy who is in relationship, and still flirts with other women - do you really want to go through that??
If you keep chasing the guy, you're not respecting yourself. If he were interested, he'd let you know. So grow up about matters. Chances are there's another guy at that gym or in your circle of friends who is interested in you and you don't even know it.
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Originally Posted by elnina
^^^ This!! Geez... girl. Work on your self esteem and don't be so desperate. Men don't want desperate women. They thread desperate women like crap, because they know those women would endure everything.
If he broke up with his GF and were interested in you, he would contact you.
Also guy who is in relationship, and still flirts with other women - do you really want to go through that??
I guess I already knew the answer as I felt awful just thinking that I would even want to contact him again. Just needed a knock in the head again. Ok, I'm going to keep going to that gym regardless though. Not gonna let him stop me from doing that.
I guess I already knew the answer as I felt awful just thinking that I would even want to contact him again. Just needed a knock in the head again. Ok, I'm going to keep going to that gym regardless though. Not gonna let him stop me from doing that.
Good plan. Besides, he knows where to find you and how you feel--if he doesn't come to you then you know where he stands.
You are making a lot of assumptions and have no way of knowing whether they are right or wrong. Do you really expect him to be interested in jumping into another relationship as soon as he ended one with someone he was in love with? Don't you think that would be a tad shallow? Just because you are ready for a relationship doesn't mean that he should conform to your time line. Don't pursue him, don't harass him, and give him the space he needs. He's well aware that you are interested. The ball is in his court, and you have to be prepared to accept the fact that he may never hit that ball back. Or. It could very take a long time before he decides to hit it back. Patience is a good virtue. It teaches self restraint and wisdom.
Yes, unless you have some personal reason why you could not commit relationship at any ways, then don't waste your time. If you want someone who will reject you again and again then keep pursuing. Sometimes these no no guys are great to crush on when you really don't want to be with anyone for reals.
I guess I already knew the answer as I felt awful just thinking that I would even want to contact him again. Just needed a knock in the head again. Ok, I'm going to keep going to that gym regardless though. Not gonna let him stop me from doing that.
Good job for approaching and taking the rejection.
However, your moods towards him showed and now the opportunity to possibly date came and he shrugged you off again.
Never let your emotions over take you. Ok? Keep em in check.
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I guess I already knew the answer as I felt awful just thinking that I would even want to contact him again. Just needed a knock in the head again. Ok, I'm going to keep going to that gym regardless though. Not gonna let him stop me from doing that.
