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Thank you very much for your inputs. I do not want this discussion to take a wrong direction.
It is not about her and his marital status. It is about to try to find out based on a given information, if this man is having an affair with his fitness body. He says , he does not! Do you believe it based on what I've already posted?
Why should he be expected to put himself in danger by "helping" this woman who has a violent, abusive husband???
"Even financially." Please.
Is that the goal here???
There are many American men who are helpful, but they also are smart enough to know when to stay away from someone who has unresolved problems from her past.
Men who stay away from a woman with unsolved problem are coldblooded, cynical cowards to me!
Thank you very much for your inputs. I do not want this discussion to take a wrong direction.
It is not about her and his marital status. It is about to try to find out based on a given information, if this man is having an affair with his fitness body. He says , he does not! Do you believe it based on what I've already posted?
Since you insist ...
Based on what you have posted, I believe they probably were involved in the past but are not now.
However, that is NOT the point you and your friend need to worry about most. She is worried about the wrong information.
He does not want to be with your friend, he already told her why, and she must respect that. Period.
Any concern about this fitness partner is just jealousy.
I did do it myself, and that was not 24/7, it was FT for 8 hours and pt for 4 hours, 12 hours a day, I still had 2 days off a week. She's in poor health going to the gym when she wants?
She's looking for a man to take care of her, that's why she's putting up with her 'monster in the basement'.
Aren't you just saying she'll put up with one guy until another will support her? Sorry, I don't have sympathy for that. If it is so bad for her and her son with mental abuse and everything else, she shouldn't wait to be rescued.
Yes, to keep herself functioning she is going to a gym 2-3 times a week as suggested by the doctors. And, it takes enormous efforts to her. She is just a strong person.
She is not looking for a man to support her. She wants to stay with man she is deeply in love.
If you have nothing smart to tell, please leave this topic.
Yes, to keep herself functioning she is going to a gym 2-3 times a week as suggested by the doctors. And, it takes enormous efforts to her. She is just a strong person.
She is not looking for a man to support her. She wants to stay with man she is deeply in love.
If you have nothing smart to tell, please leave this topic.
You're right I have nothing 'smart to tell' about being a manipulative freeloader and bad parent, no experience in that, I misunderstood.
You are incredibly stupid and small-minded person.
Ok. I'm sure many people here understand what your "friend" (which I think it's you, lol) is trying to achieve. She wants another man to rescue her and deal with her emotional baggage. My advice might be crass but I'm sure I'm not far off.
Ok. I'm sure many people here understand what your "friend" (which I think it's you, lol) is trying to achieve. She wants another man to rescue her and deal with her emotional baggage. My advice might be crass but I'm sure I'm not far off.
You just unkind person who can not think out of the limits of your own sick perceptions. If a women loves a man and she does have "baggage" does not mean she is looking for a sugar daddy of for some one to rescue her. You might have no clue of what the LOVE means for many people. I doubt( based on your replies) a person like you can love and be loved at all..you are practical and cynical individual.
Anyway, people come to this forum for help, advise and understanding. Not for some nasty replies and groundless accusations.
Before you open your mouth, please think carefully.
Finishing marital status will take two years. What do you suggest..wait for two year? Are you kidding?
I don't see how waiting two years is so incomprehensible.
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