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Old 04-18-2017, 02:54 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Do you just dream of moving to the US or are you going to do everything possible to make it come through?
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"never be able to realize?" Oh my God, what's wrong with this guy?
Dude, even with Trump every year there's a lot of legal immigrants moving to US. I don't want to live as a undocumented immigrant but I have a dream and I think you shoudn't make fun of other people dreams! Whats wrong with you?
And by the way, I'm finishing my degree in Information Technology!
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Old 04-18-2017, 03:17 PM
 
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Again, OP, you do realize you are going to have to travel there. Even if you don't feel "ready." Are you sure you can handle all the differences you will find? And being treated like an outsider?
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Old 04-18-2017, 03:36 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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OP, as I recall, you've been prone to making poor choices in relationships, and had trouble breaking things off when they clearly weren't working. As I recall, we suggested you get professional help for your issues before getting into a relationship again. Have you done that? Getting professional psychotherapeutic help would be a major project that would take a year or two, at least, to see significant progress.
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Old 04-18-2017, 03:41 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost three months, in the first week together I told her that I have a dream to move to USA, she said she doesn't have this dream she would never leave her family and she has a stable job , but she told me this would be a deal breaker for us.
I told her that I have this dream but that this could work it out or not, I don't know the future. But it's something that I wish to live another life in another country, since I hate my country, hate the city I live!
Anyway we're still dating but sometimes I ask myself "What's the point of having a relationship since we have different goals in life?"
Guys, have you ever had this situation before?
What is your nationality?
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Old 04-18-2017, 03:59 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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What is your nationality?
With the " dude " and " guys " being mentioned I'd lay evens it's Canadian or Aussie
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Old 05-29-2017, 05:57 AM
 
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We broke up because of this, she said she wouldn't date me if in the future I could leave her to move out to another country so we broke up!
Now she's accusing me of I used her, I was only looking for fun' that I'm selfish, etc.
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Old 05-29-2017, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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We broke up because of this, she said she wouldn't date me if in the future I could leave her to move out to another country so we broke up!
Now she's accusing me of I used her, I was only looking for fun' that I'm selfish, etc.
Oh, cruel world!
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Old 05-30-2017, 12:43 AM
 
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost three months, in the first week together I told her that I have a dream to move to USA, she said she doesn't have this dream she would never leave her family and she has a stable job , but she told me this would be a deal breaker for us.
I told her that I have this dream but that this could work it out or not, I don't know the future. But it's something that I wish to live another life in another country, since I hate my country, hate the city I live!
Anyway we're still dating but sometimes I ask myself "What's the point of having a relationship since we have different goals in life?"
Guys, have you ever had this situation before?
The US is a terrible place for men for many reasons. Do not move here.

There. Your problem is now solved.
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Old 05-30-2017, 01:54 AM
 
Location: Hamburg, Deutschland
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Yeah, isn't that interesting that so many people dream of moving to the US, but not so many dream about Canada. Why is that? IMO most of those dreamers are misguided.
The Propaganda Factory aka Hollywood.
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Old 05-30-2017, 01:40 PM
 
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The US is a terrible place for men for many reasons. Do not move here.

There. Your problem is now solved.
Better than Brazil, for sure!
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