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My boyfriend is horrible to me and I have no one to tell. I'm stuck with him, he talks to so many girls it's ridiculous, he basically does anything he wants and it's even worse when he's drunk he doesn't give a Mod cut:
languageabout me at all then. This relationship is killing me. Even if we ever did break up I don't think I'd be able to date anyone again he's like ruined me and my trust. The reason I'm stuck with him is because he moved with me to a state almost 8 hours away from where we used to live. He doesn't know anyone around here so he'd have no place to go, and he can't really go back to where he was because he's a freaking broke joke. No car no money no job. Hes so lazy all he does is sit around play Ps4 get drunk and smoke cigarettes. Literally the worst person I've ever met in my life. He wasn't always like this I don't know what changed but it sureee did. All he does is yell at me and blame me for all his problems when he's the one who is responsible for ALL of them his record is horrible and that's why it's so hard for him to get a job. His dad and grandma send him money every few days for "food" and cigarettes but he never buys any food with it just beer. He like has it made, doesn't have to doMod cut: language and thinks I can't kick him out bc he has no where to go and I'm not a cold hearted person to do that to someone but honestly I'm getting veryyy close. I can't stand this much more he emotionally and mentally abuses me and it really wears me down. I just don't know what to do anymore. He also likes to say if we broke up no one would ever want me and a bunch of other stuff and idk I just can't take this anymore. I'm at my breaking point. He also said if I ever tried to get rid of him he'd do a bunch of awful stuff to me and he'd make sure I'd be alone and had no one ever again. I really don't know what to do... Please help also the police aren't an option because he said he'd kill me and my mom before he goes to jail,and I believe it. And if not he'd get my mom jailed for fraud (she filled out papers for him to get food stamps THAT HE USES) what a low life... Like I just don't understand how he can be such a horrible human being and especially to me! We've been together for almost 4 years like come on... Either fix yourself and be nice to me or gtfo why stay here and treat me like Mod cut:
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Useless threats....he'd get in trouble over the food stamps too. You think he'll do that? Bull crap.
As far as calling the police there's not much they'll do for you if you won't do it yourself.
Or wait until he starts physically abusing you, then you can call them.
If you think it's cold hearted to kick his ass out, then suffer another 4 or 5 or 10 years.
He doesn't know anyone around here so he'd have no place to go
Not your problem.
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and he can't really go back to where he was because he's a freaking broke joke.
Not your problem.
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No car no money no job.
Not your problem.
You are not stuck, OP. You choose to remain in this situation. The smartest and best thing to do - dump him. But as we often see on this forum, you'll come up with one excuse after another, and choose to remain in a toxic relationship.
You are not stuck, OP.You choose to remain in this situation. The smartest and best thing to do - dump him. But as we often see on this forum, you'll come up with one excuse after another, and choose to remain in a toxic relationship.
He brainwashed you to believe that you HAVE to tolerate all his behavior or he will harm you and your family.
You should contact police and told them about his threats, then pack his stuff into boxes, place at the front door (outside), and ask your landlord to change the locks. If your BF acts out - you could get a restraining order.
Stop fearing him, and get him out of your life. Four years is enough, unless you "love" him and want to suffer.
So...OK. Let's say what he says is true. You'll never get anyone else.
THAT'S worse than being stuck with him? Eh. I'd rather be alone than be with someone abusive.
Leave. Don't leave a forwarding address, don't tell him 'bye'. Just disappear. Don't check up on him when you leave, don't tell the world where you go, just leave.
You owe him absolutely zero, zilch, nada, not a damn thing.
You're not stuck, you're just not doing anything to help yourself and focusing all of your energy on blaming others.
Get the hell out of their
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