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Old 05-04-2017, 12:19 PM
 
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Dump him. Pay for a full tank of gas for him to drive home. But dump him.
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Old 05-04-2017, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Your excuses for breaking up are pretty weak.
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Old 05-04-2017, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Leave. You are better off alone. And don't get involved with anyone else until you figure out why you pick losers.
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Old 05-04-2017, 03:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Locate the nearest women's shelter to you. Tell them the situation, including the threats, and see if they can offer you counseling or temporary shelter while you figure out where to go from there. Some women's shelters have secret locations, so no potentially violent SO's can find them and cause problems.
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Old 05-04-2017, 04:20 PM
 
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Head to a womens shelter.
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Old 05-04-2017, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Manchester, UK
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Locate the nearest women's shelter to you. Tell them the situation, including the threats, and see if they can offer you counseling or temporary shelter while you figure out where to go from there. Some women's shelters have secret locations, so no potentially violent SO's can find them and cause problems.
This!
Please get some help OP. I know his threats are scary and he sounds dangerous. But you really need to get out of your current situation. This will not get better.
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Old 05-07-2017, 11:39 PM
 
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I understand the feeling of being stucked up in such a relationship... My best friend had some similar situation with her. Though she moved on know and i am happy for her. Just remember if you can't handle it now for more then it will only become worst in the future, which is not at all good.
Better just move on. Just get the hell out and don't even tell him that. Just go and get your live free and live happily.
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Old 05-08-2017, 01:32 AM
 
Location: Montana
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You need to drop this guy in the worst way. It sounds like you need a get away plan since you won't confront him about it. Try to come up with a plan that will get him to leave the house. Like if he is going back home, whatever. Move out all your stuff in one day when he isn't there and don't let him know where you went. Break off all communication.

In case you need motivation, he is the kind of person being sung about in this song.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LH-i8IvYIcg
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Old 05-08-2017, 02:27 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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No response from OP....
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Old 05-08-2017, 02:35 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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No response from OP....
First-time posters can be so shy, huh?
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