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Old 07-22-2017, 08:14 PM
 
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I decided to give this tinder thing a shot and I do not know how to go about some things as I am more of a face to face kind of person. So I matched with this girl and we just really hit things off and exchanged each other's instagrams. The next day I messaged her again and she replied a while later apologizing for taking so long to answer because she doesn't check the app that often. To which I then cut to the chase and asked her to dinner. She agreed then asked where to go. I suggested a place but never got a response. It's been a full day. So my question is do I continue to wait it out or do I say something? If I do say something how long do I wait?

This is why I prefer face to face interaction lol. Thank you for your suggestions
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Old 07-22-2017, 08:43 PM
 
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I'd wait a couple days. Then message her your number. She agreed so obviously she's interested. Either hasn't checked the app yet or she's busy with something else at the moment
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Old 07-23-2017, 11:16 AM
 
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Stalk her on Instagram
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Old 07-23-2017, 11:43 AM
 
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Please, no offence to anyone but I'm personally tired of the busy excuse. We're all busy!

Would it be too hard to say let me get back to you on this and actually follow up and keep your word?

I would still give the person a chance but they would be on a tight leash.
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Old 07-23-2017, 11:53 AM
 
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When you are using a dating app or online dating site to meet someone it's a strong possibility that they are matching and talking to other people. So if someone disappears or don't contact you right away then that is most likely the reason.
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Old 07-23-2017, 11:41 PM
 
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Online dating is a waste of time for men. You are much better off trying to meet women through friends.
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Old 07-24-2017, 06:51 AM
 
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How did u get on op?

One day isnt much. If it goes a few days or more i would assume for whatever reason she has lost interest or got cold feet.
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Old 07-24-2017, 06:59 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Online dating is a waste of time for men. You are much better off trying to meet women through friends.


Waste of time for you maybe, not me.


And I don't date friends of friends.
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Old 07-24-2017, 07:30 AM
 
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Waste of time for you maybe, not me.


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Same here. Besides, even if u dont meet a great match, it can be fun meeting and flirting with multiple women.
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Old 07-24-2017, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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Waste of time for you maybe, not me.


And I don't date friends of friends.




I don't do the bolded either. At least with online dating doesn't work, you can move on with your life, if you date a friend of a friend and it doesn't work, that person may always still be around causing for some uncomfortable moments.
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