To women, do you prefer being called hot or beautiful? (loving, friend)

[Billy Bob 42]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

And it depends on who is calling you it, and what the context is. Someone you're in a relationship with calling you "hot" is different than some guy on the street or in a bar saying the same thing.

It was just a question....

[EverEden]

Originally Posted by DontH8Me

Whatever a woman's preference, I recently read that when men compliment us, we should agree instead of playing that whole self-deprecating schtick. Next time a guy says I'm hot or beautiful, I'm going to say, "I know, right?"

I like this, and as a woman I agree!!! What's wrong with being called those things. As long as it's genuine and not just to get you into the bedroom...lol. I think it's a compliment to be called either, and if it's a good relationship a woman should be happy her mate thinks this of her. I'd like it

As for which one, it depends on the mood. If someone is feeling sexy then she probably prefers to be called hot. Beautiful is in my opinion a more deep, meaningful thing.

[EverEden]

Originally Posted by Jobster

Are you joking?

Why should this be a joke? If she says I know, a man will find her even more beautiful because she's confident, unless she says it in a conceited way of course, then it's obnoxious. I think she was being playful though!

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by Billy Bob 42

It was just a question....

I know?

What I prefer being called depends on who's saying it and why.

[Hand McLovin]

Originally Posted by DontH8Me

Whatever a woman's preference, I recently read that when men compliment us, we should agree instead of playing that whole self-deprecating schtick. Next time a guy says I'm hot or beautiful, I'm going to say, "I know, right?"

I do the same! go figure!

[Billy Bob 42]

Originally Posted by EverEden

I like this, and as a woman I agree!!! What's wrong with being called those things. As long as it's genuine and not just to get you into the bedroom...lol. I think it's a compliment to be called either, and if it's a good relationship a woman should be happy her mate thinks this of her. I'd like it

As for which one, it depends on the mood. If someone is feeling sexy then she probably prefers to be called hot. Beautiful is in my opinion a more deep, meaningful thing.

I guess it depends on the type of person too, maybe my GF feels more confident when I call her hot.

[Billy Bob 42]

Originally Posted by Hand McLovin

I do the same! go figure!

Why did you give me that warning earlier? That wasn't necessary.

[CSD610]

Originally Posted by Billy Bob 42

I guess it depends on the type of person too, maybe my GF feels more confident when I call her hot.

Real women feel confident without the need to be called anything but their name.


There is no across the board *most* like anything, too many women and variables to generalize.

[Billy Bob 42]

Originally Posted by CSD610

Real women feel confident without the need to be called anything but their name.


There is no across the board *most* like anything, too many women and variables to generalize.

Are you sure about that? What about women who are insecure? Are they not real women in your eyes?

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by Billy Bob 42

I guess it depends on the type of person too, maybe my GF feels more confident when I call her hot.

If she feels more confident, it's because it's you, her boyfriend, who thinks she's hot. That's always a plus. An empty compliment from someone she doesn't care about isn't the same.