I'm bi but setting off every "gaydar" I come across. (girls, gay)
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I had been dating a woman fairly casually. We only had sex a few times. She's on section 8 housing assistance. Just graduated college but no full time job. No plans to get a full time job. A lot of whining about her circumstances and no willingness to do anything about it. I can't put up with that.
Uhh yeah, I'd be moving on if I were you.
I feel ya, last woman who tried chasing after me had 4 kids all by 4 different men...ugh.
In my, perhaps naive opinion, a bi sexual is a homosexual. If they keep trying to have a successful relationship with someone of the oppposite sex, it will fail.
Ask any heterosexual how likely they are to have a same sex relationship, the answer is zero. If you ask any person to have a hetero relationship with a bisexual, the answer is, why take the chance?
No such thing as a bisexual man IMO. If you like to put penis in your mouth or take it in the rump then you're homosexual regardless of what else you do with your free time.
Nothing wrong with it but just call it like it is.
^ both of you are wrong.
A bi-sexual is somebody who is attracted to both sexes. A homosexual is only attracted to their own sex.
If you are involved in the gay community you will quickly realize that there are more bisexuals (in the closet) than there are gays.
No such thing as a bisexual man IMO. If you like to put penis in your mouth or take it in the rump then you're homosexual regardless of what else you do with your free time.
Nothing wrong with it but just call it like it is.
This is not the first time that I've seen you post something like this, and it's beyond ridiculous. It's not even bigoted and hateful, as much as it's just completely nonsensical and illogical. It's just downright ignorant, there's really not enough adjectives to use to describe how wrong this is. I'd love for you to explain how there's no such thing as a bisexual man, but how there is a such thing as a bisexual woman. I'm just dying to read your analysis on this. Please humor me.
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^ both of you are wrong.
A bi-sexual is somebody who is attracted to both sexes. A homosexual is only attracted to their own sex.
If you are involved in the gay community you will quickly realize that there are more bisexuals (in the closet) than there are gays.
SWFL_Native has said something like this before. I almost wonder if it's satire, that's how illogical it is. I'm surprised that no one else called that poster out on this, until you did, just a few minutes before me.
It's really a middle school way of thinking, to claim that men can't be bisexual, but women can be. I haven't heard many people argue this, except in middle school. I've always heard the ''I don't like gayzzz that are dudes, but it's hot on girlzzz'' from guys of all ages, though I haven't heard many people argue against the thought of men being able to be bisexual, while women can be. It's pretty hilarious.
No such thing as a bisexual man IMO. If you like to put penis in your mouth or take it in the rump then you're homosexual regardless of what else you do with your free time.
Nothing wrong with it but just call it like it is.
SWFL_Native to the majority of humans who have ever lived: No such thing as an omnivore IMO. If you like carrots and celery you're a vegetarian no matter what else you eat.
SWFL_Native to Bo Jackson: No such thing as a two sport athlete IMO. If you like to swing a bat or wear a glove then you're a baseball player regardless of how many yards you run for in the NFL.
SWFL_Native to Galileo Galilei: No such thing as being multi disciplinary IMO. If you invent a thermometer or a compass then you're an inventor regardless of how many astronomical discoveries you make.
See how dumb that is?
That's how dumb your post and opinion are
^ both of you are wrong.
A bi-sexual is somebody who is attracted to both sexes. A homosexual is only attracted to their own sex.
If you are involved in the gay community you will quickly realize that there are more bisexuals (in the closet) than there are gays.
Agreed.
There is a double standard with bisexual men and women. Bisexuality in women is viewed as normal, even desirable, but if a man does it, EWWW!
In any event, I'm going out with a 19 year old girl tonight. I've been getting more interest from younger women than women my age.
My thoughts exactly, CBeisbol. Can't believe more people didn't rip that (monumentally asinine) comment.
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Agreed.
There is a double standard with bisexual men and women. Bisexuality in women is viewed as normal, even desirable, but if a man does it, EWWW!
In any event, I'm going out with a 19 year old girl tonight. I've been getting more interest from younger women than women my age.
Well, it doesn't matter if you're going out with a girl in your free time tho!
Just sarcasm on my part!
The double standard is pretty ridiculous. There's also a common misconception that bisexual or bi-curious women vastly outweigh male bisexuals/bi-curious people. I'd say there's just as many in both genders, even if women are more open to admitting it about themselves. Even if there are more in women than men, I would say it's probably not by a substantial number.
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In my, perhaps naive opinion, a bi sexual is a homosexual. If they keep trying to have a successful relationship with someone of the oppposite sex, it will fail.
Ask any heterosexual how likely they are to have a same sex relationship, the answer is zero. If you ask any person to have a hetero relationship with a bisexual, the answer is, why take the chance?
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No such thing as a bisexual man IMO. If you like to put penis in your mouth or take it in the rump then you're homosexual regardless of what else you do with your free time.
Nothing wrong with it but just call it like it is.
It is ignorance about bisexuality like what is displayed in these two posts, that keeps men in the closet and creating a thing like “the DL” and spreading STDs around.
If you swing both ways, you can't be surprised when both sexes hit on you.
It is much more common for men to hit upon "whomever" than women, so it makes sense you are hit on by more men.
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