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Old 10-17-2017, 01:55 PM
 
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I fell for a guy 3 years ago but we lost touch due to situations in our personal lives. Over the past 5 months we got back in touch and have been friends. I also met another guy during the 5 months who seemed quite nice too. The thing is there are two events on the same day which I have to decide which one to go to as each guy will be at one. I can get to know the new guy or finally confess my feelings for the old one. Which would be best?
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Old 10-17-2017, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Florida
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If you're all gaga over the 'old' guy why would you want to pass him up to get to know new one?
Other than that, flip a coin.
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Old 10-17-2017, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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Based only on what you posted I would pick whichever event would be most interesting for you!
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Old 10-17-2017, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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New guy
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Old 10-17-2017, 02:08 PM
 
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I fell for a guy 3 years ago but we lost touch due to situations in our personal lives. Over the past 5 months we got back in touch and have been friends. I also met another guy during the 5 months who seemed quite nice too. The thing is there are two events on the same day which I have to decide which one to go to as each guy will be at one. I can get to know the new guy or finally confess my feelings for the old one. Which would be best?
Is it the married guy? Guy from hiking group? Guy from walking group? The co worker? Your friends husband? Or the guy at the bar?
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Old 10-17-2017, 02:13 PM
 
Location: Gulf Coast
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Is it the married guy? Guy from hiking group? Guy from walking group? The co worker? Your friends husband? Or the guy at the bar?
Fascinating...............
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Old 10-17-2017, 02:25 PM
 
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Why can't you go with another one at another time?
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Old 10-17-2017, 03:04 PM
 
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For all you know, both guys will be bringing their own dates.

Why not wait until you are invited by one or the other rather than trying to put yourself in their faces.
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Old 10-17-2017, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Based only on what you posted I would pick whichever event would be most interesting for you!
This ^^^ OR show up to one event, see what's going on - stay if you like, and/or leave for the second event.
Usually if you are torn between two guys, neither one is The One...

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Is it the married guy? Guy from hiking group? Guy from walking group? The co worker? Your friends husband? Or the guy at the bar?
Oh, brother... you are REALLY undecided, OP...
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Old 10-17-2017, 04:07 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Based only on what you posted I would pick whichever event would be most interesting for you!

obviously
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