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Old 11-20-2017, 01:51 AM
 
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A friend of mine has documented an online and onesided relationship with a guy who
1) does not acknowledge her online
2) completely ignores her online
3) Is not proud of the relationship as it his hidden from all 3 of his social media accounts
4) Does not introduce her to his friends, collegues or family
5) he refuses to appear (or be tagged)in any of her many photographs in which she regularly posts on Instagram although she confirms he is present
5) according to her own posts , undervalues, disrespects her, is not kind to her, hurts her etc


Now he has dumped her, she is not taking it very well. For a few days she is silent and posts is moving on then she begins to retweet and like his posts and post 20 different motivational posts how she wants to try again , she will forgive etc.

I am not sure of her intentions but she has just followed her ex partners boss and one of his close colleagues, now only his boss is following her back but not the close friend. Its very disconcerting as she is re tweeting a lot of her ex partners posts and then following up with her own damaging posts that she has been hurt, her heart is broken etc these posts will appear in his bosses timeline. She is completly lost her identity as the twitter account is her professsional account and her time is spent absorbed in a man that cares very little about her.

My words of advice are ignored by her - she continues to vent and post online. He is still following her , she is still following him on Twitter . She has now diactivated her Facebook account but continues to attempt to woo him with her instagram, taking selfies proclaiming she is having fun. This has worked numerous times with him in the past but this time, the split appears to be amicable .
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Old 11-20-2017, 02:14 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Her choice to make a public azz out of herself but she better hope she doesn't kill herself professionally.
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Old 11-20-2017, 02:23 AM
 
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True. Her twitter account is 100% business ( her professional account) these posts dont belong there
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Old 11-20-2017, 04:27 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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She sounds a bit loopy, and I'm guessing it didn't start when she was 'dumped'. Were they ever really going out? If I was him, I'd be looking over my shoulder in case of an 'accident'.
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Old 11-20-2017, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by hasanji View Post
A friend of mine has documented an online and onesided relationship with a guy who
1) does not acknowledge her online
2) completely ignores her online
3) Is not proud of the relationship as it his hidden from all 3 of his social media accounts
4) Does not introduce her to his friends, collegues or family
5) he refuses to appear (or be tagged)in any of her many photographs in which she regularly posts on Instagram although she confirms he is present
5) according to her own posts , undervalues, disrespects her, is not kind to her, hurts her etc


Now he has dumped her, she is not taking it very well. For a few days she is silent and posts is moving on then she begins to retweet and like his posts and post 20 different motivational posts how she wants to try again , she will forgive etc.

I am not sure of her intentions but she has just followed her ex partners boss and one of his close colleagues, now only his boss is following her back but not the close friend. Its very disconcerting as she is re tweeting a lot of her ex partners posts and then following up with her own damaging posts that she has been hurt, her heart is broken etc these posts will appear in his bosses timeline. She is completly lost her identity as the twitter account is her professsional account and her time is spent absorbed in a man that cares very little about her.

My words of advice are ignored by her - she continues to vent and post online. He is still following her , she is still following him on Twitter . She has now diactivated her Facebook account but continues to attempt to woo him with her instagram, taking selfies proclaiming she is having fun. This has worked numerous times with him in the past but this time, the split appears to be amicable .
She sounds like she needs to talk to someone...or may end up fired. I don't understand people who do that and put themselves out there on social media like that with crazy posts.
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Old 11-20-2017, 08:34 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Why are you posting about her AGAIN? She is obsessed over him and you are obsessed over her.


Her public online drama is just very stupid. Who does that?? How old is she?? Everyone has their heart broken at one point, but making this a worldwide topic is just very overboard, oversharing and not smart.
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Old 11-20-2017, 12:52 PM
 
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How can he be in any of her photos if this is an online relationship? Is there some new technology I am not aware of?

This woman seems to have a psychiatric issue of some kind. Look up borderline personality disorder. Such an incredible display of self-delusion and narcissism is a tip off.
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Old 11-20-2017, 12:54 PM
 
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Now he has dumped her, she is not taking it very well. For a few days she is silent and posts is moving on then she begins to retweet and like his posts and post 20 different motivational posts how she wants to try again , she will forgive etc.

I am not sure of her intentions but she has just followed her ex partners boss and one of his close colleagues, now only his boss is following her back but not the close friend. Its very disconcerting as she is re tweeting a lot of her ex partners posts and then following up with her own damaging posts that she has been hurt, her heart is broken etc these posts will appear in his bosses timeline. She is completly lost her identity as the twitter account is her professsional account and her time is spent absorbed in a man that cares very little about her.

My words of advice are ignored by her - she continues to vent and post online. He is still following her , she is still following him on Twitter . She has now diactivated her Facebook account but continues to attempt to woo him with her instagram, taking selfies proclaiming she is having fun. This has worked numerous times with him in the past but this time, the split appears to be amicable .
Your friend is a whackjob.
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Old 11-20-2017, 02:16 PM
 
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She has already been advised that liking every single post he makes on Facebook and Twitter is not a good look, it can be seen as marking her territory or something more underlining....
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Old 11-20-2017, 02:19 PM
 
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How can he be in any of her photos if this is an online relationship? Is there some new technology I am not aware of?

This woman seems to have a psychiatric issue of some kind. Look up borderline personality disorder. Such an incredible display of self-delusion and narcissism is a tip off.
It's not an online relationship, the relationship is real but she chooses to post regular photos when they are together , you cannot see him in the photograph, you can see his hand, legs underneath the chair, bit not his body and face
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