Should I visit my filipina friend? (married, loving, older, internet)

[xerxeshandler]

I've been chatting online with a filipina for 7 months. She's 19, I', 38. We've talked about all sorts of things, I know a lot about her, and I feel like we know each other reasonably well, under the circumstances.


I have some free time coming up so I'm wondering if this is the right time to visit her. Should I do it or should I give it more time?

[Crashj007]

Visit only if you have done live chatting.
"On the Internet, no one knows if you are a dog."

[Frihed89]

Why not? The few I know that are married to older Danes are loving and loyal.

[usayit]

I say sure... Just keep those expectations in check.

[Hand McLovin]

Just get on that show 90 day fiance, they'll fly her here for free.

[303Guy]

Assuming you have been voice chatting and have exchanged photo's, and also assuming you have been talking discussing intimacy, I would say go.

But have a backup plan. You know, just in case it doesn't work out.

Been there, done that.

[elnina]

Sure - if you have time and means, why not? Why 38 y.o. needs to ask such simple questions? Do we need to decide it for you?

[hawaiiancoconut]

Book your tickets. Now is a good time to go.

[SwedishViking]

Well if you go there just take precautions, meet publicly, make sure you get antiquated publicly etc, she might be "real" but there could be 5 dudes ready to cut your guts out for your money when you leave the public eye too...

Alternatively invite her over and offer to buy her a plane-ticket, if she agrees, you've just bought yourself a lot of security.

"Hurry slowly"

[303Guy]

Buy her the plane ticket.