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Old 11-27-2017, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I don't think he should really kick her, its an expression.


LOL @ all these boys trying to hard to be tough guys can't even type.
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Old 11-27-2017, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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Well yeah, didnt mean physically, kcik her, but kick her out of his life when hes done with her.
That would be using her!

I wish I had someone who wanted to use me!

The way I see it is these two can have a mutually beneficial relationship as FB's.
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Old 11-27-2017, 09:44 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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LOL @ all these boys trying to hard to be tough guys
I just appreciate them giving insight into their minds. It's extremely validating.
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Old 11-27-2017, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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I just appreciate them giving insight into their minds. It's extremely validating.
Yes, we are different, and not always in a good way. If it were me, I would just be honest with her, tell her I don't want a romantic relationship, but if I was still physically attracted, offer her the FWB option. Or just tell her to stop contacting me, and that I was blocking her number.
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Old 11-27-2017, 10:01 AM
 
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That would be using her!
Right, which is what i said he should do. Use her then get rid of her when hes done.
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Old 11-27-2017, 10:07 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Give her the lovepipe and bounce. Tell her you only want a friends with benefits relationship. If she wants to hangout just advise i am not your boyfriend. I just lay the pipe.
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Old 11-27-2017, 10:46 AM
 
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Just ask her what she wants because you guys have already broken up.Don't use her...there is such a thing as KARMA.Meaning you wouldn't want someone to do the same thing to do...so treat her and yourself with respect and ask her what she wants and tell her what you want.Be direct.
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Old 11-27-2017, 11:07 AM
 
Location: NY
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I bet it is super annoying when you tell your ex to go away, and they keep texting you anyway...


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we had sex and since that point she is texting me every day.

Oh.... you have encouraged her to get back in touch by sleeping with her after the "random" chance meet.


Clearly she is texting her because you acted like someone fully willing to take her back. Better talk to her (not text, talk) and explain how you feel.
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Old 11-27-2017, 11:13 AM
 
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I broke up with my ex since a while and finally we cut contact because we had arguments. Few weeks ago she found a way to 'accidentally' meet me (we have few friends in common), we had sex and since that point she is texting me every day.

Ladies: what is going through your mind when this happens? She doesn't want to be in relationship, but she needs me as an everyday friend
HAHAHAHAHA....................She needs you as a boy toy until she finds someone else
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Old 11-27-2017, 01:16 PM
 
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She’s not thinking, she’s just acting.
Same goes with you.

You’re using one another until something better falls in your direction.
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