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That is a shock after 40 years of marriage. Does he plan on meeting men & having a relationship, or is he just going to day dream? My response would be dependent on that. If he is not going to follow his impulses & remain faithful to you, then I would probably be OK, but if he is off fooling around, I'm gone. I won't tolerate fooling around from a partner no matter who he wants to see ( male or female)
I just found out my husband is bi curious, is this a normal thing at the age of 60, or should I move on? We have been together for 40yrs.
This might have been something that he's been feeling/thinking about his entire life, not just at the age of 60. Admitting it to you shows trust, which is good. Does he want to explore this, or is he merely being honest with you?
He does not know that I know about this, I found a phone, I have not confronted him with it yet as I only found it yesterday and with the holidays and my son's impending engagement I did not want to start any drama right now.
To me it's wanting to have an affair.... doesn't matter the gender.
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To me it's wanting to have an affair.... doesn't matter the gender.
^^^^^This. He probably has had these thought for a long time, and has either waited to act on them, or has acted on them before, and just got caught now.
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