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Women (generally speaking) dont go out of their way to find men, they let men come to them, so unless you approach theyre not gonna care because chances are they have a dozen orbiters already.
If you want to get better with women, go to redpill on reddit and ditch your self limiting beliefs.
Many women give off attraction signs. I don't receive these signs, so I stay away to avoid the creeper status.
Women (generally speaking) dont go out of their way to find men, they let men come to them, so unless you approach theyre not gonna care because chances are they have a dozen orbiters already.
If you want to get better with women, go to redpill on reddit and ditch your self limiting beliefs.
Redpill is a site for men who have been rejected frequently by women, so they develop bitter attitudes towards them. I believe the site has also promoted date rape. The advice there won't help men improve relationships with women. It's all about misogyny and being angry at women.
Are you telling the women you meet/potential dating prospects that you’re a virgin? There’s no need to divulge this information, at least not early on during the first few dates and absolutely not when you first start talking. And most women aren’t going to come out and ask you if you’re still a virgin, so you don’t have to worry about lying to them and saying you aren’t. Unless you’re a teenager still, which a lot 19-20 year olds are still virgins, so it’s not out of the ordinary. If you’re older than that, they’re most likely going to assume that you’re not a virgin, anyway. If they do ask how many sexual partners you’ve had, give them a smirk and say something like “I don’t kiss and tell!”.
There’s no need to divulge this information. It’s weird if you feel the need to vent about it to dates/potential dating prospects about it. If you need to vent about it, do it to your friends or people online. Not your dates. If it’s a matter of being afraid of not knowing where the “Hole” is or how to put on a condom, there’s literally non-pornagraphic pictorials and “instructions” all over the Internet.
Also, what HC said.
My social prowess will give it away. When I say something, they'll assume that I'm either a virgin or intoxicated and/or strung out on drugs.
Right...don't tell women thinking that if they know they'll give you a break. Don't let your lack of confidence turn you down that path. Sometimes you have to "fake it 'till you make it". And I don't mean not being yourself but you need to do stuff and just not care quite so much if it all works out perfectly or not...just DO IT.
Oh you're just an insecure virgin. I thought this would be about doing some shady/illegal things in the past that caught with you thus making it difficult to date women.
Depends on the "bad reputation." I had a very messy falling out with this girl I really liked in my teens. We got into a lot of fights, I made a fool out of myself (the attraction was mutual when we were in our early teens but I didn't realize it died out by the time I was 18 or so). I guess I liked her more than she liked me. We eventually cut ties during my freshman year of college winter break and I know some of her friends back home (we grew up in the same town) and her college roommates probably knew what happened (who lived in nearby towns).
Years later, I dated one of her old high school friends (post college). This girl never bought up the high school fall out I had with her friend so I'm pretty sure I overestimated how many people knew about it or how much that girl cared to let her friends know about her situation with me.
In terms of girls being able to tell you're a virgin, trust me they can't. I had a friend who was considered tall, handsome and by the time he got to college, he admitted to have never kissed a girl. Granted he eventually gained experience and the only thing I noticed about him at first was his charismatic personality.
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