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I met a girl at a meetup today. We had pretty good conversations and connected well. I asked her for her number and said that we should hang out sometime to which she said yes and gave me her number. Now, in the context of the meetup, does she know that I'm interested in asking her out since I'm asking for her number? Or is it possible that she thinks I'm looking for a friend since it is a meetup after all? I can't tell if she's single or not. Would she give out her number and agree to "hang out" if she has a boyfriend?
I met a girl at a meetup today. We had pretty good conversations and connected well. I asked her for her number and said that we should hang out sometime to which she said yes and gave me her number. Now, in the context of the meetup, does she know that I'm interested in asking her out since I'm asking for her number? Or is it possible that she thinks I'm looking for a friend since it is a meetup after all? I can't tell if she's single or not. Would she give out her number and agree to "hang out" if she has a boyfriend?
Do you think it's possible that you can be her friend first and then progress to be a boyfriend? That what usually happens in most countries in the world... perhaps excluding the US, where this concept is not desired, despite the fact that turning initial connections into romantic relationships, friendships still yield the best results.
If she didn't say she has a boyfriend, she probably doesn't.
If she gave you her number, but you find out she does have a boyfriend... personally, I'd run, as she might be the cheating type. But that's me. I have zero interest in being a side piece or monkey branch.
You do not have a relationship yet, so use her name when texting her. "Hi, Mary. Would you like to meet this afternoon for coffee?" She's not your 'babe' or 'honey' yet.
Do not text her several times a day for days on end just to say hi how are you and nothing else. It gets old after the first couple of days, and totally annoying after that.
Yes, you have her number, now use it. Ask her out!
Even if she doesn't now understand that you are interested in her, she will after you ask her out.
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She knows. Make the date. Good luck!
