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Originally Posted by justgotlucky
It's tiring and exhausting. but I don't want to give up on him. I love him. I just don't know what to do anymore. I always put him first but I felt like to him, I'm always second. It's frustrating but I don't want to give him up.
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This is all that's important. You're exhausted, you feel like he always puts you second, he's clearly given up, yet you "love him." WHY do you love him? Do you really? Or do you love the fantasy him that he is not?
Also, it is OK to love someone and still make the decision to not be their romantic partner. "Love" ain't enough to make a relationship work ... unless that love prompts many acts of sacrifice, which your boyfriend isn't ready for.