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Isn't it weird that his wife is my fb friend and I didn't know about the wedding, not even that they were together. She absolutely posted nothing. She actually posted pictures of her bachellorette party with her girlfriends. Then, her best friend posted pics of the wedding day, but it was three pics of the two of them (bride and her gf). And, finally, my ex's nephew posted something like "what a beautiful wedding. congrats Michael and Maria (fake names) and below was a picture of his own son, so people commented something like "what a cute kid."
I mean i get it, some people want to keep it private but this girl is active on fb, has tone of pictures but zero pics of the two of them or any reference to their wedding day. And I know none of my business but it just strikes me as strange.
Isn't it weird that his wife is my fb friend and I didn't know about the wedding, not even that they were together. She absolutely posted nothing. She actually posted pictures of her bachellorette party with her girlfriends. Then, her best friend posted pics of the wedding day, but it was three pics of the two of them (bride and her gf). And, finally, my ex's nephew posted something like "what a beautiful wedding. congrats Michael and Maria (fake names) and below was a picture of his own son, so people commented something like "what a cute kid."
I mean i get it, some people want to keep it private but this girl is active on fb, has tone of pictures but zero pics of the two of them or any reference to their wedding day. And I know none of my business but it just strikes me as strange.
You indicated that the guy was kind of a private person, so perhaps he has requested that she not post his photo on FB.
You indicated that the guy was kind of a private person, so perhaps he has requested that she not post his photo on FB.
True, he is not on social media but I still find it little extreme. I guess the only thing I should remember is that he didn't want to be with me in a relationship and that is the only thing that matters.
This may sound insane but consider sending him a link to this thread.
You're clearly in love with this man. Does he know that? He may not understand why you pushed him out of your life 4 years ago. It's possible he settled for the other woman.
Your initial post was so powerful and raw; I can't imagine it wouldn't stir up emotions.
Thanks for sharing. Women are like this too. I did this once to a guy...I feel terrible that I did that to him. I dated a guy for a few months but I did not want to commit but we still did 'bf/gf' things...that is because in my heart I knew I could find someone better. Because of me he might have a bad view on women. I broke it off very coldly. It is true if a person doesn't want to commit and be with YOU but still leads you on (meaning makes love to you, takes you out) that means they are not in love with you or love someone else...best to move on.
I also think you, though you may not be still in love with him you are hurt because he didn't choose you. It is an ego thing...in my view. I may be wrong though.
Thanks for sharing. Women are like this too. I did this once to a guy...I feel terrible that I did that to him. I dated a guy for a few months but I did not want to commit but we still did 'bf/gf' things...that is because in my heart I knew I could find someone better. Because of me he might have a bad view on women. I broke it off very coldly. It is true if a person doesn't want to commit and be with YOU but still leads you on (meaning makes love to you, takes you out) that means they are not in love with you or love someone else...best to move on.
I was once guilty of that too. The guy put all the effort and I was just going with the flow and enjoying it. But I didn't insist on being together. I wasn't crazy about seeing him as soon as I got back from vacation. I didn't text him a year later. but on the other hand, it is maybe because women don't typically chase men.
This may sound insane but consider sending him a link to this thread.
You're clearly in love with this man. Does he know that? He may not understand why you pushed him out of your life 4 years ago. It's possible he settled for the other woman.
Your initial post was so powerful and raw; I can't imagine it wouldn't stir up emotions.
I wouldn't say he settled. Woman's intuition is incredible. I felt that he was interested in her while he was seeing me. She also worked at the same bar just on different days and i only knew her as an acquaintance. But she was taken, in a relationship but still would go out with my "boyfriend" once in a while. Again, they share the same background and we were not really in a relationship so, yup, I kind of put up with that.
If you are all sitting their while dating talking about who else your respective interest would be with if not for your involvement It wasn’t meant to be.
It kinda sounds like two people unsure of what they want just winging it in the beginning until things became serious and intentions had to become defined
If you are all sitting their while dating talking about who else your respective interest would be with if not for your involvement It wasn’t meant to be.
It kinda sounds like two people unsure of what they want just winging it in the beginning until things became serious and intentions had to become defined
If you are talking about this girl (not his wife) who I said "he would be with her if she wasn't taken." We never really discussed her but i was jealous because he was so involved with her. not in a romantic sense tho. he help her with something huge. he sacrificed himself to help her and she will be forever in his dept. So, when he didn't want to commit I thought he was in love with her. but turned out he helped her as a friend.
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