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My standard of conduct is not to do anything I wouldn't with my husband watching.
Or, would you feel comfortable with your BF acting like you?
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"So i am in a relationship with the best man ever, i love him so much and i could spend the rest of my life with him. He is perfect for me! We have been together for about 3 years now, we have a sparkly and romantic relationship, a lot of sex and we live together." - just words. You're actions sing a different tune.
You're not committed.
It's possible but I don't think it definitely means that.
I know a few guys married to women like that..they don't cheat they just love the attention.
Men who are out at night are not out to be friends with women and only friends. 95% of the time they are going to want more, so be prepared for that. Lots of men get women to cheat on their significant other by studying human psychology and knowing exactly what gets them going and practice... typically enough playful teasing that has a sexual undertone is all it takes combined with a little bit of weight training. This is why men get insecure as well as many women like you do have lots of guy friends and inevitably end up cheating. The less game the man has, the more jealous he'll get.
I've had female friends in the past who have purposely mislead me by being flirtatious. Some of them were in "serious" relationships. They simply want validation from other men. I cannot stand attention wh*res.
Not to be mean but I agree. Relationships require what some people call a sacrifice. I’ll be honest to me there’s no sacrifice because my personality isn’t like that. I’ve never had girl friends, no interest in having them outside of professional contacts, and I no longer drink either sooo... there’s a sense that I simply don’t ever put myself in situations that could lead to bad results. My GF is the same, she’s basically allergic to alcohol (hasn’t been tested but half Asian, her mom has never drank so wouldn’t know if she was allergic, and my GF has thrown up all night from a half of a Bud Light which simply isn’t possible from a normal person lol). She doesn’t ever “go out” with the girls as it’s inappropriate in a long term relationship to be doing that. Otherwise we would go together. Bar hopping with “the guys” or “the girls” is inappropriate behavior in a relationship but sadly 90% of people are both too selfish and too immature to get this, so they use classic psychological projection and say “if you don’t trust your partner....” or some other such nonsense that has nothing to do with reality.
Flirting with other people isn’t acceptable in a relationship. Ever. For any reason. You know if your BF saw you doing that he wouldn’t be ok with it, so why is it ok? It isn’t.
This is simple stop flirting. If you need male attention go to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend's attention is not enough you have deeper issues. Seek professional help as others have stated.
I'm curious - how old are you? You call everyone "boys" and "girls". If you are an adult out drinking, then that's a sign of your mindset, which is lagging behind your chronological age.
It's good if you are honestly looking for input here, but I suspect there is a bit of humble bragging going on about how hot you are. And no, I'm not jealous. lol
Turn the tables for a minute - would it be cool for your boyfriend to be putting his hands on other women's thighs and grabbing their backsides in front of you? If that's not okay, think about what you are doing when you get drunk and laugh and have a jolly time with guys who do it to you.
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