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Old 03-17-2018, 03:27 PM
 
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I'm saying that there is greater ability, in general, for men to be able to do this.
To do what?

Figure out what women want based on predictability and logic?

Again I give you Exhibit A.

 
Old 03-17-2018, 04:45 PM
 
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To do what?

Figure out what women want based on predictability and logic?

Again I give you Exhibit A.
Figure out how women react to things, how they think, why they think the way they do, etc. Noticing general trends and adapting one's behavior accordingly.
 
Old 03-17-2018, 04:50 PM
 
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Figure out how women react to things, how they think, why they think the way they do, etc. Noticing general trends and adapting one's behavior accordingly.
How many different ways does this need to be explained? Women know more about themselves than you do, you do not know every woman so you cannot explain what every woman really wants, especially when you're saying things that aren't true. Sheesh! Way to continually prove how much you know about us women, can we get some more playful teasing up in here now?
 
Old 03-17-2018, 04:57 PM
 
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How many different ways does this need to be explained? Women know more about themselves than you do, you do not know every woman so you cannot explain what every woman really wants, especially when you're saying things that aren't true. Sheesh! Way to continually prove how much you know about us women, can we get some more playful teasing up in here now?
Again, this is obviously not playful teasing.

Double again: You're wrong and you simply don't know what you don't know.
 
Old 03-17-2018, 05:08 PM
 
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Again, this is obviously not playful teasing.

Double again: You're wrong and you simply don't know what you don't know.
I'm wrong about women? It should be playful teasing that you're attempting, because the posters not agreeing with you here about what you 'know' about women are...women. At least we can see irony, anyway.
 
Old 03-17-2018, 05:13 PM
 
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I know right???

I mean what is all this we were saying about logic again...?

No logical person needs the same extremely simple concept explained six times in a row.

DG, if you understood women you would already have "gotten" what rbccl and I were saying. I think ironically, you don't see how you set up your own situations in a confirmation bias way in order to blow past what IS, in favor of what you would like to think life is. And that is very illogical. That's not a slam, BTW, but an observation. It repeats itself throughout your posts. It is as predictable as clockwork and amazingly illogical.
 
Old 03-17-2018, 05:18 PM
 
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I know right???

I mean what is all this we were saying about logic again...?

No logical person needs the same extremely simple concept explained six times in a row.
A little birdie told me he may be negging us.
Is this the desired effect then, stupification and furrowed brows?
 
Old 03-17-2018, 06:32 PM
 
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A little birdie told me he may be negging us.
Is this the desired effect then, stupification and furrowed brows?
Yeah, there's a reaction....just like everyone knows from toddlerhood on, negative attention is still attention...but panties dropping being the desired result of negging, well, this would seem to prove it sure doesn't work as intended, so...

I mean, I don't know if anyone reading this REALLY wants to learn anything about women and relationships. Maybe not. But one thing we have all learned by this demonstration is that no, women don't like the whole "negging" thing...nor are we "attracted to" masculinity when poorly performed, which only comes off as nastiness, not sexiness. There's sexy...and then there's trying to copy sexy, but just not really hitting the mark. And that's the whole problem. To wit:

The whole thing with PUA (besides being woman-fearing, paranoid and manipulative) is, if you're already unable to have relationships with/relate to women, how is adding something that would need to be SUPER subtle and suave a good choice for such individuals? "Playful teasing" that ISN'T an insult is one hell of a trick to pull off...but it's recommended to guys who have so much trouble getting dates that they literally pay gurus to find out how to get ONE date. So how is the most subtle of advanced human interaction a great option? It's not going to result in panties dropping for the average "I just can't talk to girls" guy. It's going to result in a knee to the cajones, more likely. Just being realistic.

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Old 03-19-2018, 02:07 AM
 
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If youre serious about this I would just go to YouTube and watch videos or google AWALT and click on some of the links you find. Knowledge is power.
 
Old 03-19-2018, 05:57 AM
 
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I'm saying that there is greater ability, in general, for men to be able to do this.
There comes a point when you generalize a sentence SO much that it says nothing. You have reached that point.
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