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Old 04-27-2018, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I have already deleted his number lol
See, this seems like game playing.

You say you want to talk to him about his goals etc, yet you've already deleted his number, presumably because you're pissed.

If you truly are serious about a relationship, you'll take a breath and not overreact to every little hiccup along the way.

He could be a player or not. Time and patience will tell.
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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See, this seems like game playing.

You say you want to talk to him about his goals etc, yet you've already deleted his number, presumably because you're pissed.

If you truly are serious about a relationship, you'll take a breath and not overreact to every little hiccup along the way.

He could be a player or not. Time and patience will tell.
Agree.

This is what dating is for, to get to know the person.

You can ask until you are blue in the face, and only his actions will tell, and for that you keep seeing him.
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:10 AM
 
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And btw, it's too late for a ONS.
He's attracted to you. He waited for the second date to kiss.
You liked kissing him.
He looked at your butt. People have sex. Sometimes when a man really likes a woman....well you know.

Am I the only one that thinks this sounds perfectly fine? Some people wait for the second date to have sex let alone kiss-- this guy seems to be following her lead. Hopefully he calls her back, she recognizes the number even though she deleted it, and they go out again, sheesh.
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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And btw, it's too late for a ONS.
He's attracted to you. He waited for the second date to kiss.
You liked kissing him.
He looked at your butt. People have sex. Sometimes when a man really likes a woman....well you know.

Am I the only one that thinks this sounds perfectly fine? Some people wait for the second date to have sex let alone kiss-- this guy seems to be following her lead. Hopefully he calls her back, she recognizes the number even though she deleted it, and they go out again, sheesh.
I agree.

It reads as though he is constantly pestering her about escalating the physical side, which would not be ok with me, but only the OP knows if that's the case.
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:27 AM
 
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Are you sure you're in your 30's?
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Florida
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OP made it sound at first, like he kept going on about sex and only later said they had other conversations ,too.
I wouldn't be much interested if a man I was seeing wasn't showing any signs of interest in me sexually as long as it was balanced.
She's kissing and hugging but expects him to say nothing??
Think I'll leave this one up to her.
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:47 AM
 
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also he told me that he had relationship around two yrs ago and that I was the first one he chatted online. when i asked him how come he didnt find anyone from the site, he said it is difficult.

To be honest. for sure he may be playing the field as most guys do.

I just dont want my time wasted or his. Not fair. And I am goig to be firm on that
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Old 04-27-2018, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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also he told me that he had relationship around two yrs ago and that I was the first one he chatted online. when i asked him how come he didnt find anyone from the site, he said it is difficult.

To be honest. for sure he may be playing the field as most guys do.

I just dont want my time wasted or his. Not fair. And I am goig to be firm on that

Really?


Dating is to find out IF you want to be with that person. It's not a guarantee.
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Old 04-27-2018, 12:12 PM
 
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I think the turning point, to me, was that they WERE texting several times a day, every day, and now he's radio silent.
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Old 04-27-2018, 12:18 PM
 
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Are you sure you're in your 30's?
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also he told me that he had relationship around two yrs ago and that I was the first one he chatted online. when i asked him how come he didnt find anyone from the site, he said it is difficult.

To be honest. for sure he may be playing the field as most guys do.

I just dont want my time wasted or his. Not fair. And I am goig to be firm on that
Gonna be hard to contact after you deleted his number & all.
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