sex for the first time (wife, different, interested, serious)

[Chrisaki]

Now it remains to find out my answers...

[reneeh63]

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

Well we continue sex on the mattress. He said we are.getting a new bed but i said i will get a wooden sturdy one this time

That's cute - going bed shopping together!

[Hawk J]

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

I mean of course everything has limits and its not.possible to date months and months and still see where things go.

I made my position clear which i am very glad about.

Btw the passion was so intense that we broke the bed

You can both work together fixing the bed with some scrap boards & Duct tape.....

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

Its not that easy to get that.

I.may do a drive by as i found where he lives

But anyway if he doesnt invite me to his house i will say to him i dont trust him and. I don't wanna continue.Simple

You can do online searches for marriage registrations. Do you know his name?

[Chrisaki]

In the uk.is not that simple. Yes i know full name etc where he works

[Rowan123]

Thanks for the update OP. I have to say his comment about maybe taking a job a distance away raises more flags.

I wouldn't be surprised at all if he's married at this point.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Rowan123

Thanks for the update OP. I have to say his comment about maybe taking a job a distance away raises more flags.

I wouldn't be surprised at all if he's married at this point.

Yeah, it feels like he's always laying the groundwork for why he won't be available to her.

[HokieFan]

Originally Posted by Rowan123

Thanks for the update OP. I have to say his comment about maybe taking a job a distance away raises more flags.

I wouldn't be surprised at all if he's married at this point.

For certain. Phase two of his escape plan - this is the long term (aka permanent) escape.

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by Rowan123

Thanks for the update OP. I have to say his comment about maybe taking a job a distance away raises more flags.

I wouldn't be surprised at all if he's married at this point.

Yep. First it was going away on vacation for a couple of weeks, now it's going away to work for a few weeks. Next it will be has to go to job training out of town for a few weeks, then back to vacation or maybe helping his mom move, or a great aunt is in the hospital out of town.

Seems like he is only in town for hook ups the has to jet off again.

[Catgirl64]

Make him pay for the new bed before he leaves.