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Old 06-10-2018, 04:20 AM
 
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Since I've taken a break from online dating. I then discovered the "people you may know" or "suggested friends" list that pops up from time to time.

They usually are there because you share some mutual friends on Facebook. I figured that using that as a resource to get to know some ladies where we share a few mutual friends as a reason to break the ice.

Good idea, bad idea? I be like, "Hey, I see we share 5 friends on Facebook, small world!"
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Old 06-11-2018, 05:56 AM
 
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No. Majority of women don't respond to Facebook messages from random people they've never met. The number of scammers across all forms of social media has increased to the point where very few people trust random strangers contacting them by any means. It doesn't matter if you have mutual friends because if you've never met in person, most women will delete your message without reading it.
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Old 06-11-2018, 06:25 AM
 
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No. Majority of women don't respond to Facebook messages from random people they've never met. The number of scammers across all forms of social media has increased to the point where very few people trust random strangers contacting them by any means. It doesn't matter if you have mutual friends because if you've never met in person, most women will delete your message without reading it.
Yeah, but it has worked for me, eventually. lol. I be like, "Hey, you know Sue...me and him hang out at so-and-so How long have you known her? Sometimes I'll use a hobby or activity we all have in common based on shared interests.
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Old 06-11-2018, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Nah man, I find it to be a creep move. But whatever works for creepy people, Lol
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Old 06-11-2018, 07:19 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Nah man, I find it to be a creep move. But whatever works for creepy people, Lol


Agreed. If I haven't met someone in person, or atleast worked with them on projects for quite awhile (at a distance), I'm not adding them, and not communicating with them. It's just odd to me. Each to their own.
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Old 06-11-2018, 07:36 AM
 
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Nah man, I find it to be a creep move. But whatever works for creepy people, Lol
+1.

Just no. Hell naw.
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Old 06-11-2018, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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Since I've taken a break from online dating. I then discovered the "people you may know" or "suggested friends" list that pops up from time to time.

They usually are there because you share some mutual friends on Facebook. I figured that using that as a resource to get to know some ladies where we share a few mutual friends as a reason to break the ice.

Good idea, bad idea? I be like, "Hey, I see we share 5 friends on Facebook, small world!"

I don't know anyone who uses Facebook for OLD but I guess you could give it a try - the worst that could happen is you get shot down and blocked.
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Old 06-11-2018, 08:35 AM
 
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It's considered a creep move on Facebook, but it wasn't in the MySpace days

Facebook is more insular than MySpace was, and less conducive to getting to know people outside your family/work/school.
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Old 06-11-2018, 08:36 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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no. Creepy!!
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Old 06-11-2018, 08:39 AM
 
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FB even recognizes the creepiness factor so they've spun off their own dating site:

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-f...-idUSKBN1I23YV
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