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[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

I am beginning to do something about it.

Small Step by samall step for now then hopefully I will make a big step

Hopefully? It's up to you.

I guess if this is how you have to break up with him, then this is how you do it. But you definitely need to do it.

[elnina]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

yes.

I haven’t answered him for awhile.

At first I read his messages and didn’t reply.

Now I just don’t read them.

OK, so that's what you do. Is there another question?

[Gemma25]

He will probably just give up.
He doesn’t seem he is that invested in me.

[redplum33]

Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar

Reading it and not replying would be worse to me.

I feel the opposite is far worse. The way I see it...

Reading it shows that the person cares, and the no reply suggests that the person is upset.

Not reading it just shows complete indifference.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by redplum33

I feel the opposite is far worse. The way I see it...

Reading it shows that the person cares, and the no reply suggests that the person is upset.

Not reading it just shows complete indifference.

If they haven't read it, you can just assume that they haven't logged onto the site yet for whatever reasons. Reading it and not replying suggests that they can't be bothered to acknowledge you.

[oh-eve]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

yes.

I haven’t answered him for awhile.

At first I read his messages and didn’t reply.

Now I just don’t read them.

just break up with him, stop playing childish games. Tell him he's a piece of ... and get it over with.