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Old 08-21-2018, 02:05 AM
 
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I have lived with my girlfriend for a few months already. Yes, it has only been a few months and I can’t take it anymore! She keeps on nagging over small and senseless things. I’m not used to people nagging on me this much, that’s why I can’t take this anymore. She’s a smart and pretty Colombian woman but her character is nothing but a stinky dead fish!
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Old 08-21-2018, 04:17 AM
 
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It can’t be too bad if you haven’t left by now. You put up with it, then don’t complain. Let her be on her own a while. Maybe, she’ll find someone who doesn’t mind the nagging.
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Old 08-21-2018, 04:18 AM
 
Location: Florida
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I can’t take it anymore! usually means you're done .So is this just a rant?
Or were you hoping for something like suggestions on where to hide the body?
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Old 08-21-2018, 05:02 AM
 
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There’s are a few possible scenarios here. The first is that she is an annoying wench who is lazy and complains about everything. The second is that you’re a slob and you’re lazy. The third is that you two have different living styles and it’s clashing.

You need to be more specific in regards to what she is nagging about. But you should also make sure that you actually run a tight ship. You should be living like your single, meaning you keep a clean house and manage your ish on your own and if she adds value, great.
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Old 08-21-2018, 06:42 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Ha Ha! Look in the mirror. Usually that’s where the problem is.

If it’s really undeserved, tell her to stop. The relationship will end like magic.
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Old 08-21-2018, 07:11 AM
 
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lf the "nagging" is bad now, it will likely increase in frequency and duration as the relationship wears on if you do not address and resolve the issue with your GF. People tend to not change their personality or disposition. If it's a deal breaker for you, move on, or you'll start to nag about the nagging.
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Old 08-21-2018, 07:24 AM
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I can't stand people like that, and I don't know how anyone else can either.

She's not likely to change - it's likely to get worse.

Bye bye, pretty girl.
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