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Rule number two: if he gives you a sob story, refer to rule number one.
Seriously, he was never into you. He used you, because you were paying for his things. You can't buy your way into a functioning relationship with a man.
My ex who recently cheated on me. Is having the time of his life with his friends and going out with his new girlfriend.
It really sucks. Most of my friends have kids and mesh well together with other people who have kids.
I am trying to be careful with my money because I have my own house and credit card debt which my ex put me in further debt.
So is there anybody else out there like that too?
I feel for you but now is an opportunity to empower yourself. F your ex and to heck with your friends. Get in the saddle so to say and take ownership of your life. You own a house you have debt so pay it off and get back on track. At the end of the day your ex doesn’t matter and all that matters I’d you feel comfortable in your own skin/life. Don’t worry about going out to feel good about yourself, plenty to do around your home on a Friday or Saturday night.
In terms of the OP, be grateful you learned early enough not to get serious with him because he was a user. To be fair, you should have not been paying for anything for him. Lesson Learned hopefully. A man should be able to stand on his own two feet period!
Figure out how to get out of debt now with your time. Pick up new interests and hobbies so when friends or family are not available then you can occupy yourself. I like this time because I spend less money when I am alone. Find out ways to make extra money and pay down your debt. Increase your savings!
Get empowered is right. You build confidence and with confidence you attract a better class of people~
Rule number two: if he gives you a sob story, refer to rule number one.
Seriously, he was never into you. He used you, because you were paying for his things. You can't buy your way into a functioning relationship with a man.
How does what work - a woman trying to buy a guy's affection? I know several women who have done this. I am sure this is not a rarity - not a wild feat of imagination in my world.
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