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I will keep it simple. I met this one woman and we have had two really good dates together. First date we had a bit of mischief which was partly her fault, funny things happened. Second date I took her to see some Christmas lights and she mentioned that she has never been and thanked me for it!
The second date I ended up having her back at my place making out. Some petting and touching, no sex, even though I alluded to it, but I told her that I didn't want her to get the wrong idea.
So fast forward we're texting and having a little banter. I think I get a little OVER sexual saying that my mind can be "dirty as ****". This wasn't too crazy because I've already told her how sexy I found her and the heavy make out. I joked and stated that I scared her away.
She told me "I'm probably not the girl you're looking for." I think she believes I just want to have sex with her.
So I will say that I asked her previously if she knows what she wants and she says she doesn't. In some cases when I hear this, I feel that I can scare them off by being too serious so I'm just go with the flow, whatever happens happens.
I find her incredibly attractive and I admit I can be overzealous. I told her that. So I sent her a paragraph apologizing and telling her I can be overzealous at times. I acknowledge that we can have a guard up, but I feel truly I can be myself around her. She's working now but I feel maybe I will call her later or...? What ar your thoughts?!
I will keep it simple. I met this one woman and we have had two really good dates together. First date we had a bit of mischief which was partly her fault, funny things happened. Second date I took her to see some Christmas lights and she mentioned that she has never been and thanked me for it!
The second date I ended up having her back at my place making out. Some petting and touching, no sex, even though I alluded to it, but I told her that I didn't want her to get the wrong idea.
So fast forward we're texting and having a little banter. I think I get a little OVER sexual saying that my mind can be "dirty as ****". This wasn't too crazy because I've already told her how sexy I found her and the heavy make out. I joked and stated that I scared her away.
She told me "I'm probably not the girl you're looking for." I think she believes I just want to have sex with her.
So I will say that I asked her previously if she knows what she wants and she says she doesn't. In some cases when I hear this, I feel that I can scare them off by being too serious so I'm just go with the flow, whatever happens happens.
I find her incredibly attractive and I admit I can be overzealous. I told her that. So I sent her a paragraph apologizing and telling her I can be overzealous at times. I acknowledge that we can have a guard up, but I feel truly I can be myself around her. She's working now but I feel maybe I will call her later or...? What ar your thoughts?!
Sounds like she is making an exit. There are others Beaste. Once a woman has made up her mind that she's moving away from you, that's your cue to exit stage left.
Sounds like she is making an exit. There are others Beaste. Once a woman has made up her mind that she's moving away from you, that's your cue to exit stage left.
This was pretty quick though given that she was messaging me. I think I just said something off putting and need to back off a bit.
I will keep it simple. I met this one woman and we have had two really good dates together. First date we had a bit of mischief which was partly her fault, funny things happened. Second date I took her to see some Christmas lights and she mentioned that she has never been and thanked me for it!
The second date I ended up having her back at my place making out. Some petting and touching, no sex, even though I alluded to it, but I told her that I didn't want her to get the wrong idea.
So fast forward we're texting and having a little banter. I think I get a little OVER sexual saying that my mind can be "dirty as ****". This wasn't too crazy because I've already told her how sexy I found her and the heavy make out. I joked and stated that I scared her away.
She told me "I'm probably not the girl you're looking for." I think she believes I just want to have sex with her.
So I will say that I asked her previously if she knows what she wants and she says she doesn't. In some cases when I hear this, I feel that I can scare them off by being too serious so I'm just go with the flow, whatever happens happens.
I find her incredibly attractive and I admit I can be overzealous. I told her that. So I sent her a paragraph apologizing and telling her I can be overzealous at times. I acknowledge that we can have a guard up, but I feel truly I can be myself around her. She's working now but I feel maybe I will call her later or...? What ar your thoughts?!
You're a man -- how on God's green earth is sex "the wrong idea?" She was probably thinking, why doesn't this guy take what he wants?
The ball is in her court. You already did your part by apologizing...so don't do it again and just chill, as others have said. She already started backing away, maybe thinking thats all you want; so don't keep making her think that. So just don't act like that abymore. Just play it cool, have fun!! Trust me, nothing good comes from rushing.
LOL paragraphs and words are near meaningless but actions actually have meaning.
You might have scared her a bit and given off the wrong vibe which will might have forked any chance you may have had.
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