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Old 01-02-2019, 05:32 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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Okay Auraliea, let me throw a scenerio out at you.

Say, a guy walked up to you and point blank said.."Hey, ya wanna go have sex?". how would you respond?

With both the aspects of attraction and interest aside, with those two things aside...but just the fact a guy had the guts to walk up to you and point black ask you, about having sex...how would you respond?
Get real! There are many ways to express the same sentiment much more diplomatically without being crass. Do your own experiment and come back to us with the results.
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Old 01-02-2019, 07:53 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Okay Auraliea, let me throw a scenerio out at you.

Say, a guy walked up to you and point blank said.."Hey, ya wanna go have sex?". how would you respond?

With both the aspects of attraction and interest aside, with those two things aside...but just the fact a guy had the guts to walk up to you and point black ask you, about having sex...how would you respond?
Yeah no.

Ignore and walk away.
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Old 01-02-2019, 08:13 AM
 
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Okay, here's one

"Hi Redplum, my name is (such and such). I think your absolutely gorgeous and wanted to know if you were single. If so, I'd want to take you out, Friday night"

To me, to ask a woman if she'd like to go out on a Friday night, seems pretty weak. With this more direct approach, there's no games, and no bs and it tells her right off the bad, what your intentions are.
For ME, the fact that you were direct would be fine. The fact that you would want to go out with me for no other reason that what I look like would make me not want to go out with you.
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Old 01-02-2019, 08:18 AM
 
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No, I wanted to get her response to how would she would respond to a guy having the guts to walk up to her, and point blank ask her, about having sex with the aspect of both whether or not she was attracted to him or not, or interested aside and out of the equation.
The notion of having "guts" to ask someone out is not a big winner for me. if having the "guts" to do that is notable, I would wonder what other minor life stuff is a big challenge for him.
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Old 01-02-2019, 08:41 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Telling someone you like them can be difficult so i respect a guy that can approach a female. But crass will be met with crass, if a guy walked up to me and told me he wanted to have sex, i'd probably tell him he'll have to wait until my crabs cream kicked in and walked off doing a little scratch for effect.
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Old 01-02-2019, 08:55 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Okay Auraliea, let me throw a scenerio out at you.

Say, a guy walked up to you and point blank said.."Hey, ya wanna go have sex?". how would you respond?

With both the aspects of attraction and interest aside, with those two things aside...but just the fact a guy had the guts to walk up to you and point black ask you, about having sex...how would you respond?
My first husband once told me that he used to do that a lot (before he met me). He said he got slapped a lot, but he also got laid frequently. It wouldn't have worked with me, I can tell you.
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Old 01-02-2019, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Kansas
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My first husband once told me that he used to do that a lot (before he met me). He said he got slapped a lot, but he also got laid frequently. It wouldn't have worked with me, I can tell you.
" but he also got laid frequently."


Well, there ya go..LOL
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Old 01-02-2019, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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A man can be direct without being a D-bag.
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Old 01-02-2019, 09:31 AM
 
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" but he also got laid frequently."


Well, there ya go..LOL
Is that what you want? If so, is there any harm in just trying it as much as you can?
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Old 01-02-2019, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Kansas
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Is that what you want? If so, is there any harm in just trying it as much as you can?
Oh, I mean....let's be straight-up honest here, I think every man likes to get laid, Lol...and even tho he (Bungalove's first husband) got slapped a lot, he also got laid quite frequently, using that approach too.
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