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I’m 38 and never been in a relationship and I crave love and affection yet id still rather be alone the rest of my life then with someone I have no physical attraction to.. Id be miserable.
I'm not an unattractive guy by any means. I work out at the gym, I take care of myself, and I have a Masters degree. I'm also a highly sexual person but one who's been deprived of such pleasures, in and out of relationships all my life.
OP if the above is true then why do you go for the big ladies that you have no attraction on.
Get on Tinder go meet a hot co-ed, go backpacking in Euro, go to Brazil and grab some bundas! You still have a lot of life left and it seems like you have no baggage. (no kids, no wife/girlfriend, etc)..
Are your finances in order?
I am 34. I have no student loans, no kids, no wife, etc. I have no desire to be a father or husband. I am open to a long-term girlfriend.
I agree with another OP you need some hobbies and stop limiting yourself.
OP, I wonder if you realize that your lack of attraction your wives and girlfriends was lonely and unhappy for them as well? And I, like everyone else, am wondering why you married people you were not attracted to not once, but twice? You got something out of it...but what?
Not all people are made to be in a relationship all the time you know. Perhaps right now you could concentrate on enjoying your life as a single man, and keep in mind that a lot of men would like to be in you shoes, free as a bird and no family obligations! Develop a hobby. And let things happen, you never know what's around the corner.
And as said above, a pet can be of enormous comfort when you feel lonely. A dog will always make you feel wanted and loved.
Good luck!
PS: don't adopt just know please, kids are not meant to fill a hole in a person's life.
Sound advice.
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