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My Dw of 37 years, was clearly raped at some point in her life. It is obvious to me from some of her behaviors. We have been in couples counseling and in discussing some of her behavior everyone seems to openly recognize that she has this trauma in her past. But even after 37 years with me, she refuses to admit it ever happened.
It may gush out next week, or it might not come out for another 10 years. I simply don't when she will be ready to discuss it.
During our first couple years of marriage, my past abuses [physical abuse as a child] hit me pretty hard, and my Dw was there to comfort me, as I had to work through my issues. I will be present for her.
This is less about Relationships, and more towards Psychology and Sexuality.
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