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A little background: We met a little over a year ago through my mothers boyfriend (one of his best childhood friends). He works the night shift of a full time job, has full custody of a 15 year old with my moms boyfriend’s sister. He has a reputation of not commiting and being a typical bachelor/ *******. He constantly warns me he is a dead end road and at some point this will end.. Why is he constantly saying this and not just go with the flow? He always hides the women hi brings over, but with me he is totally open to having his son see me there. I typically come over when his son has a sleep over and will see his soon when he come home in the morning while me and his father are conversation over coffee in the kitchen. This morining was different. His son came home early while him and I were still sleeping. his father didnt have any concern of his son walking in the room and seeing me in bed. didnt try to sneak me out at all. and his son did come into the room twice and saw me.
A little background: We met a little over a year ago through my mothers boyfriend (one of his best childhood friends). He works the night shift of a full time job, has full custody of a 15 year old with my moms boyfriend’s sister. He has a reputation of not commiting and being a typical bachelor/ *******. He constantly warns me he is a dead end road and at some point this will end.. Why is he constantly saying this and not just go with the flow? He always hides the women hi brings over, but with me he is totally open to having his son see me there. I typically come over when his son has a sleep over and will see his soon when he come home in the morning while me and his father are conversation over coffee in the kitchen. This morining was different. His son came home early while him and I were still sleeping. his father didnt have any concern of his son walking in the room and seeing me in bed. didnt try to sneak me out at all. and his son did come into the room twice and saw me.
He's letting you know not to expect anything more from him. You should believe him.
Is he still sneaking other women in for sex when you're not there? If so, I wouldn't read too much into why he's fine with his son seeing the two of you in bed together. Sounds more like laziness on his part.
See him for who he is and not for what you want him to be.
I typically come over when his son has a sleep over and will see his soon when he come home in the morning while me and his father are conversation over coffee in the kitchen. This morining was different. His son came home early while him and I were still sleeping. his father didnt have any concern of his son walking in the room and seeing me in bed. didnt try to sneak me out at all. and his son did come into the room twice and saw me.
Seriously? A 15 year old kid walks into a bedroom where you and your BF sleeps? Doesn't he know better than that? Are YOU o.k. with that?
Looks like a strange woman sleeping with his father bed isn't anything new and causes no reaction anymore. He probably saw it often enough and it doesn't matter anymore.
When in a relationship, listen to what is said, and watch what is done. If he is saying "dead end road" that is what he means. If that is not what you want, move on, the road will end, just like he told you.
Seriously? A 15 year old kid walks into a bedroom where you and your BF sleeps? Doesn't he know better than that? Are YOU o.k. with that?
Looks like a strange woman sleeping with his father bed isn't anything new and causes no reaction anymore. He probably saw it often enough and it doesn't matter anymore.
Yep first thing had me cringing too. And to know it's a dead end yet still do it, someone get me a gun.
Probably not. She sounds desperate and delusional.
Guy "has a reputation of not committing and being a typical bachelor. He constantly warns her he is a dead end road and at some point this will end"... and she is still clinging to it....
He doesn't want a relationship. What for if he is getting free sex.
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