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Old 02-24-2012, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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My girlfriend just went through a procedure called a colposcopy, it basically takes tissue samples of your cervix if your pap teast comes back abnormal. So the doctor's orders are: No intercourse for 48 hrs prior to the test, and no intercourse for 14 days after, in order to prevent infection...

Tell me why this girl is going to give in to her boyfriend's demands for sex? WHY!!!

Why woud you risk your health, your well being, just because this #$%^% does not like his hand?

I got so upset when she told me, and all she could say is: "But he has needs too, and I love him" are you insane!!! what is going to happen if the results come back positive for pre-cancerous cells? what if it turns out you do have cervical cancer? is he going to be getting a bj while you have your quimo at the same time? what in the hell!!!

ugh!! I guess no real question here, just me ranting!!
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:04 AM
 
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Tell me why this girl is going to give in to her boyfriend's demands for sex? WHY!!!
Because she's an insecure idiot with no regard for her own health.
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:08 AM
 
Location: USA
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The relationship is only a physical one? He is immature?
Dozens of answers here. I hope your friend ends up okay despite everything.
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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My girlfriend just went through a procedure called a colposcopy, it basically takes tissue samples of your cervix if your pap teast comes back abnormal. So the doctor's orders are: No intercourse for 48 hrs prior to the test, and no intercourse for 14 days after, in order to prevent infection...

Tell me why this girl is going to give in to her boyfriend's demands for sex? WHY!!!

Why woud you risk your health, your well being, just because this #$%^% does not like his hand?

I got so upset when she told me, and all she could say is: "But he has needs too, and I love him" are you insane!!! what is going to happen if the results come back positive for pre-cancerous cells? what if it turns out you do have cervical cancer? is he going to be getting a bj while you have your quimo at the same time? what in the hell!!!

ugh!! I guess no real question here, just me ranting!!
Your friend has no self-esteem.

She is not ready for a serious, successful relationship and won't be until she spends some time working on herself without a guy in the picture.

Please tell her I said so

Better yet, dare her to come here and let me tell her myself.
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:20 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Your friend has no self-esteem.

She is not ready for a serious, successful relationship and won't be until she spends some time working on herself without a guy in the picture.

Please tell her I said so

Better yet, dare her to come here and let me tell her myself.
You would not be the only one telling her!! my god, I've waisted time and energy giving her advice, yelling at her, speaking nice to her... I am just done...
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:21 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Because she's an insecure idiot with no regard for her own health.
yes, I know... is sad really, but I am done giving her advice...
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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The relationship is only a physical one? He is immature?
Dozens of answers here. I hope your friend ends up okay despite everything.
Thanks... me too.
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Old 02-24-2012, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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He would probably be just as happy with a BJ. I am thinking she wants to have sex too. Regardless, women usually let themselves get treated like crap because of the daddy daughter relationship when they were younger.

At least, that is my moms case.
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Old 02-24-2012, 08:03 AM
 
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She's not the sharpest tool in the shed and probably wants sex too.
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Old 02-24-2012, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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She's not the sharpest tool in the shed and probably wants sex too.
She doesn't want sex , she needs to be wanted.
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