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Backstory, I'm a 33 year old male who has never been on a real date. I have a variation of Cerebral Palsy, so I get why my attempts at attracting women have failed. I get it, women want to date able men, and so I totally get it. But at what stage would you given up and start frequenting a sex worker?
Don't get me wrong, some things in my life are great. I went to a good college, go a MS, work as a Machine Learning Engineer, have a great salary, and compete in powerlifting. But physical disabilities are generally a kiss of death unless you are attractive or if you're in a wheel chair. Disabilities like CP, down syndrome, make it really hard when it comes to attracting women. I'm just at the point where I'd like to throw in the towel
I think this sort of thing will make you feel more lonely. Sex isn't about an orgasm. It's also about intimacy and mutual pleasure. Do you really want to sleep with someone who very likely isn't attracted to you and can't wait for it to be over?
I don't know if you've ever had a real physical disability (not depression or something stupid like that), but it is a kiss of death when it comes to dates.
Only people with real physical disabilities would understand
Backstory, I'm a 33 year old male who has never been on a real date. I have a variation of Cerebral Palsy, so I get why my attempts at attracting women have failed. I get it, women want to date able men, and so I totally get it. But at what stage would you given up and start frequenting a sex worker?
Don't get me wrong, some things in my life are great. I went to a good college, go a MS, work as a Machine Learning Engineer, have a great salary, and compete in powerlifting. But physical disabilities are generally a kiss of death unless you are attractive or if you're in a wheel chair. Disabilities like CP, down syndrome, make it really hard when it comes to attracting women. I'm just at the point where I'd like to throw in the towel
I have a completely different take on this than most do. Sex worker aka prostitute is no different than a plumber, electrician or any other service worker in my mind. The difference is in you and your perception of what they are supposed to provide. If you just want an orgasm and nothing else, go for it and be sure to practice safe sex.
If you want companionship, friendship, reassurance or comfort run like hell the other way. Sex workers are like drugs. They provide immediate relief from physical needs and add emotional baggage and the mental need to escalate. If you are not mentally able to detach, you will sink further and further into the depths of addiction to the temporary feelings of excitement and dopamine/endorphin release. Drugs, booze, skydiving, etc. Any high intensity, high rush activity produces these seductive effects and feelings of power/success. If you cant handle the mental side don't jump in.
If you can handle the practical business side of this kind of relationship and can afford it, go for it. With all due respect the minute you had to ask strangers on the internet for guidance, I think it proved you can't mentally make that detachment and need more approval than will allow a business/sex relationship.
My advice is to quit looking at the dream girls and find a real woman who is sincere and attracted to you for you. They are out there and the only reason guys don't find them, is they are looking for the perfect 10, homemaker, wild sex partner and so on instead of a real woman with real pluses and minuses.
Good luck and best wishes either way, and no offense meant in any of this comment.
In a perfect world it would be legalized, regulated, and taxed. All sex workers would work in a safe environment possess a certificate (like lmt school or barber school they can go to W$*re school). Finally prices and services would be advertised as is and the practice or illegal trafficking or sex slave would be almost completely mitigated.
In a perfect world it would be legalized, regulated, and taxed. All sex workers would work in a safe environment possess a certificate (like lmt school or barber school they can go to W$*re school). Finally prices and services would be advertised as is and the practice or illegal trafficking or sex slave would be almost completely mitigated.
Sex workers would never be working in a safe environment because the men who frequent these places are often abusers and misogynists.
There's a reason a lot of these men can't get laid.
Sex workers would never be working in a safe environment because the men who frequent these places are often abusers and misogynists.
There's a reason a lot of these men can't get laid.
disagree... I'm sure if you poll 1000's of sex workers across America they will give you a much different picture of the typical customer. What you see in the news and movies are the "worst" of offenders but if the trade was actually that dangerous there would be no industry. Your average "John" is likely a middle class suburb married guy, divorcee, or widower (eg. Bob Kraft) just looking for a transnational no questions/no strings fun.
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