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I have an unpleasent experience with my boyfriend last weekend. I caught him at the tennis club playing mixed doubles with a girl I have always been jealous about. I am suspicious about them. I couldnt contol myself, I gave him an angry look and after the match I was at the bar and he came to me and tried to explain himself, I said oh you have found a good partner to play! he told me our relationship was more important than the stupid match and bla bla bla. I tried not to focus on her and told him I was angry because he didnt call me to play this match with him. |We saw each other the next day and he apologized again and said lets not talk about this today and so on. The rest of the day was usual.
But I am still suspicious and I am thinking about breaking up. During the conversation he asked it we were going to see each other on sunday, I had the impression he wanted me to break up.
I have always noticed some spark between them. I also play tennis so I asked why would he call her to play this match if I could have played. He told me the other double called him and they played much better than us.... something really fishy and vague, no excuse for this
Unless mixed doubles is a euphemism, then you are probably over reacting.
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I have always noticed some spark between them. I also play tennis so I asked why would he call her to play this match if I could have played. He told me the other double called him and they played much better than us.... something really fishy and vague, no excuse for this
I think you're being paranoid. Unless he has form for this sort of thing, where he has cheated on you in the past, checks out other women or flirts with them in front of you. It's not his fault he has chemistry with this woman, I am presuming he is going to do nothing about it because he is in a relationship with you.
More evidence??? I think maybe you need to get your jealousy issues in check. Your b/f might at some point get tired of having to defend the fact that he was playing tennis with a girl. Now if he was at a club having a drink with her, then you might have reason to be jealous. But not for playing tennis. JMO.
Chemistry between people doesn’t end just because a relationship starts.
This is where trust begins. You either trust your partner wouldn’t act on others who he may share a chemistry with or you do not.
Do you have any reason to believe he would do something with this woman?
Is he openly flirting with her?
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