I don’t have the confidence to date anymore (wife, marriage, man)

[The Dissenter]

Originally Posted by Carly1983

Isn't that getting a bit personal?

Yes it is. But in a lot of cases (mine included) if your family life was up, that is going to impact how you look at relationships and dating.

[redplum33]

Originally Posted by PilgrimsProgress

How was the early family life of the OP, especially her relationship with her father?

Originally Posted by Carly1983

Isn't that getting a bit personal?

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

Yes it is. But in a lot of cases (mine included) if your family life was up, that is going to impact how you look at relationships and dating.

It's still inappropriate.

[LLCNYC]

Originally Posted by redplum33

It's still inappropriate.

How? It was a reasonable question about someone with serious issues.

Especially with her being financially supported by a sugar daddy.

[redplum33]

Originally Posted by redplum33

It's still inappropriate.

Originally Posted by LLCNYC

How? It was a reasonable question about someone with serious issues.

Especially with her being financially supported by a sugar daddy.

I shouldn't need to explain why it was inappropriate.

[Ray Nathan]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

A zillion men are looking for you
Your lack of interest is another matter

He may have a point. You don’t sound bad looking, but let me ask you this: would you date a non-white male who was your same exact height or an inch shorter but was still a decent man?

[LLCNYC]

Originally Posted by redplum33

I shouldn't need to explain why it was inappropriate.

Oh please. It was a simple question. He didn't ask "so did you sleep with your dad?" He was probably asking if OP was raised/close to etc her father.

She's not going to answer anyway.

[theprincessediaries]

I didn’t have a relationship with my father.

[Harry Hemi]

Originally Posted by theprincessediaries

I didn’t have a relationship with my father.

So are you still in love with your sugar daddy or not?

[blondiel]

Originally Posted by theprincessediaries

I guess I should add..... I do get approached by men, but not the ones that I like. The ones that I like will only want me as a fling, but I’ve never had a man ask me to be his girlfriend. I feel worthless and undesirable because of it.

What is it that you don't like about the men who approach you? Why makes you feel like the men you like will only want you as a fling?

[Auraliea]

Originally Posted by redplum33

I shouldn't need to explain why it was inappropriate.

I don't think it was inappropriate at all. It actually can be a very important part of the puzzle. There are so many situations where people's relationships with their parents deeply impacts how they have relationships with others. It's the first thing children see as they grow up. So I don't think this question is inappropriate as it is uncomfortable. In order to get to the truth, sometimes discomfort is necessary. Sugar coating and tip toeing around uncomfortable subjects gets people nowhere.