How to respond to ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend contacting me? (emotionally, looking, personal)

[moongirl00]

The stalker also seems gangster. His brother is a murderer and he himself is a felon.

[jaynaydee]

So both your stalker and your rapist wanted to impregnate you against your will?

[moongirl00]

Originally Posted by jaynaydee

So both your stalker and your rapist wanted to impregnate you against your will?

Yes.

[jaynaydee]

When you continued seeing your rapist, you weren’t afraid he would try and drug you again and try to impregnate you?

[moongirl00]

Originally Posted by jaynaydee

When you continued seeing your rapist, you weren’t afraid he would try and drug you again and try to impregnate you?

He was trying to impregnate me the whole time, about 6 months. He even wanted me to go to a fertility dr to help get pregnant.

He wouldnt take no for an answer.

Im not like that now though. And thank goodness I didnt get pregnant.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by old_cold

In other words, you didn't block them.
Obviously, the advice didn't help at all.

Right?

All part of the game.

[somebodynew]

People. Stop. Stop blaming her for her reaction to being raped. Just Stop.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

People. Stop. Stop blaming her for her reaction to being raped. Just Stop.

I'm quite familiar with moongirl and her back story and her posting history here.

I'm only posting in reference to her current issue, and I will continue to respond as I see fit.

[jaynaydee]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

People. Stop. Stop blaming her for her reaction to being raped. Just Stop.

No one’s blaming her. I’m just asking a question because I’m curious to know her mindset. She answered so she’s ok with my question.

[moongirl00]

Thanks somebodynew. Yeah, I kept seeing him because I was in denial I guess. I wasnt posting here but on another board and they were very worried about me, especially that the guy was trying to get me pregnant. It was basically an abusive relationship. Not physical but emotional. They helped me through it so I eventually got strong enough to make him go away. It wasnt easy though. He wouldnt take no for an answer, told me I am stuck with him etc.