He says one thing and does the other (women, dance, young)

[maia_voss]

My guy friend, friends with benefits, partner in crime, whatever you want to call it said we are trouble when we’re together. He told me that we couldn’t be together even tho he wanted to but The universe is never in our favor. We were at the club with some friends and he kept kissing my neck and tried kissing me on the lips and kept telling me that he’s gonna take care of me. He would get jealous when other guys try to dance with me and he would do something to get them away from me. Also on the car ride back to the hotel he cuddled me the whole time and cuddled me the whole night when we slept

[archineer]

And?

[maia_voss]

Originally Posted by archineer

And?

I wanna know why he’s like that. He won’t give me a straight answer

[Auraliea]

Originally Posted by maia_voss

I wanna know why he’s like that. He won’t give me a straight answer

We don't know him.....nor are we him.....

So how are we suppose to know?

If he won't give you a straight answer, why are you dealing with him?

[LLCNYC]

Originally Posted by auraliea

we don't know him.....nor are we him.....

So how are we suppose to know?

If he won't give you a straight answer, why are you dealing with him?

+1.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by maia_voss

I wanna know why he’s like that. He won’t give me a straight answer

Because you let him have all the fun of a relationship without any of the accountability.

Stop sleeping with him and you'll get your answer.

[archineer]

Originally Posted by maia_voss

I wanna know why he’s like that. He won’t give me a straight answer

He is giving you a straight answer, you just fail to understand that to men sex is just sex.

[maia_voss]

Originally Posted by BirdieBelle

Because you let him have all the fun of a relationship without any of the accountability.

Stop sleeping with him and you'll get your answer.

We haven’t slept together in a few months now & while we slept on the same bed this weekend there was no action

[shelato]

Who else is he sleeping with?

My bet is that he enjoys the attention and sex when that happens with you, plus he likes keeping his options with others.

I think most men if they could be Emperor of the Universe, would try to assemble a harem of young women willing to sleep with them when every they fancy who don't actually sleep with anyone else other than them and possibly other females in his harem.

While he probably can't actually negotiate that with most women he is doing his part to try to get you to accept that situation with him.

[elyn02]

Originally Posted by maia_voss

I wanna know why he’s like that. He won’t give me a straight answer

Why is contradicts himself? People do it all the time. Just with different behaviors.