Who to pick as a wingman? A good-looking guy friend or bad-looking guy friend? (how to, women)
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This sounds like something from one of those advice sites for men on how to score with women.
You don't need a wing man. if you want to get a woman interested, send her a drink from the bar. None of my friends nor I would ever talk to a man in these places if they didn't get us a drink first.
You don't need a wing man. if you want to get a woman interested, send her a drink from the bar. None of my friends nor I would ever talk to a man in these places if they didn't get us a drink first.
The 90's called on a landline and left a message on an answering machine: They want their social practices back.
Very few men buy women drinks anymore, at least as an approach tactic. The drink hustlers (*ahem!*) killed the practice. And your approach is basically selling your companionship. I want a woman to talk to me because she found me interesting, not because I bought her a cosmo. Now, if I spent a good while talking to a woman, danced with her at least once, and feel some semblance of chemistry, then I'd consider buying her a drink. As a "you're worth spending time with; let me return the goodwill" kind of gesture.
OK, back on topic. The wingman's looks are mostly irrelevant. You want a man who's good with women and has your back, rather than act slick but penis-block you in the end. If he's a stand-up man, he'll make sure you're not left hanging no matter how attractive he is. The only problem is if your wingman is Chad Thunderpenis; then you don't want him wingmanning you. Not necessarily because he's a bad guy, but because he'll penis-block you just by standing next to you.
Last edited by MillennialUrbanist; 09-25-2019 at 06:30 PM..
Very few men buy women drinks anymore, at least as an approach tactic. The drink hustlers (*ahem!*) killed the practice. And your approach is basically selling your companionship. :.
It's the man's approach if he's the one offering the drink.
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I want a woman to talk to me because she found me interesting, not because I bought her a cosmo. Now, if I spent a good while talking to a woman, danced with her at least once, and feel some semblance of chemistry, then I'd consider buying her a drink. As a "you're worth spending time with; let me return the goodwill" kind of gesture.
