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Old 09-28-2019, 11:36 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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I have lately become very sexually attracted to my step sister (step fathers daughter), she is about 8 years older than I am (making her 34 years old). We are somewhat close to each other however she lives about 7 hours away so I don’t see her much. She has four young school age children and is currently a full time single mother living on child support.

Despite her age (34) she is still physically very beautiful. She has invited me to come over to her house several times but I haven’t been able to find the time and it’s also a 7 hour drive for me however I am seriously considering visiting her.

When I go see her should I openly bring up the fact that I’m sexually attracted to her? I am really scared of destroying our relationship but I also don’t want to hide my secret emotions about her. Technically we aren’t related in any way so I really don’t see a problem in this situation. What should I do?
Hey her dad is screwing your mom. I think it’s only fair you do some screwing of your own.


All joking aside

Let me ask you this. If you saw her on the street and say your mom her dad weren’t together you would be interested in this woman? Because that is the ONLY time it’s ok for you to be sexually attracted to a woman. Once there is some family tie she is off limits. I don’t care if she’s Swimsuit model material. Or are you interested in her because she’s friendly towards you and you’re mistaking her friendliness for a come on? . Her inviting you over doesn’t mean she will be waiting naked holding a rose. She could be asking you in a purely platonic situation and you’re gonna freak her out if you walk up professing your undying love.

Dude she is your sister because of the marriage and nothing good can come of this. I would seriously forget saying anything. You may be infatuated with her because she is a attractive woman. But this is one of those cases where even though you’re not related it’s really a taboo thing. You really don’t want to go down that path. You’ll be destroying your mom her had her and yourself.
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Old 09-29-2019, 12:29 AM
 
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NO!!!! You don't act on every attraction. It will be a mess, don't think about it anymore. Just stay where you are and find someone to date there.
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