She has the Flu 4 days after a 1st date? (stalking, serious, scared)

[RbccL]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

To all those who thought OP and I were paranoid for considering the possibility she was lying......guess I was right eh?

I think he orchestrated his own ending.

[LordSquidworth]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

To all those who thought OP and I were paranoid for considering the possibility she was lying......guess I was right eh?

Whether she blew him off then or later it was doomed either way.

[picardlx]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

I am not a fan of the slow blow off the way she did. Mostly, as with you, many guys Don't Get It. How many different ways does a person need to say I am not that into you before he gets it? Where is your self respect that someone who does not want to make time for you is still someone you are pursuing vigorously? Do I need to write a dating manual? For some people, apparently so.

Take your licks. Move on.

She never said it once. That was the whole point.

Would I have pursued, absolutely not. But let's not make up facts.

[moneymkt]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

To all those who thought OP and I were paranoid for considering the possibility she was lying......guess I was right eh?

exactly, no one wants to admit they were wrong.

[moneymkt]

Originally Posted by LLCNYC

This.

And that he probably texted her everyday, 10x a day demanding answers.

Considering the last one blocked him before she even got home from their first date, maybe time to look within

Anyway, how did he NOTICE "she was in my area" ??????

we were still matched on bumble and i checked to see if she was still in nyc and she wasnt. she was back in my area.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by picardlx

She never said it once. That was the whole point.

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yeah, she did, y'all weren't listening


and, if the right thing was done in the first place, all this crap would've been avoided


also, if I was potentially interested and someone acted like this that interest would have been scuttled fast

[moneymkt]

Originally Posted by picardlx

She never said it once. That was the whole point.

Would I have pursued, absolutely not. But let's not make up facts.

plus the text by her saying......"im starting to feel better"

made it seem like she was cool with seeing me again. if not why respond at all?

[redplum33]

Originally Posted by moneymkt

plus the text by her saying......"im starting to feel better"

made it seem like she was cool with seeing me again. if not why respond at all?

But she had a different excuse at that point....the grandmother.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by redplum33

But she had a different excuse at that point....the grandmother.

Instead of constantly making up new excuses, why not just tell him she didn't feel they were a good match, and wish him well? How can she expect him to accurately read the tea leaves, when she's stringing him along with false hope, or with ambiguous communications at best?

[stanley-88888888]

i was actually reading this thread vicariously for entertainment; but, the reveal in the last page is kinda' scary and disturbing.

it reminds me of the beginners guide.

i'm sorry.