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Me ex reached out to me today to tell me he only wants to meet me give me back some of my things which I can’t believe is anything more than one undergarment and there’s no hidden agenda. We have been broken up for almost 4 months but we were together for almost 7 years. He actually wanted to meet me this morning or tonight or tomorrow during the day saying that he assumes I have plans for New Year’s. He has reached out to me a few times over the last few months and I haven’t replied and he makes a point of that in his message to me today he said he has absolutely no agenda of getting back together with me since he is now in another committed relationship and “very happy” and and he assumes I know who it is just like he figured out who I am with thanks to Facebook (I’ve posted no pics but have added my current bf as a friend).
I have guessed that he hooked up with a woman added as his Facebook friend and we both knew for sometime which is kind of weird and he waited no time at all to be with her. He did indicate to me in a prior text that he ran into her at a friends party just a few days after we broke up.
Well here are some other facts and factors: I broke up with him; we were together for about seven years; I did start dating after a break up and found a new relationship but I’m not sure where it will go yet; I’ve not communicated with my ex almost at all despite him sending me some texts and emails of the last few months including the one in which he said he was out with the same woman several times but is not sure she is for him; he says in his text today that is clear I want no communication with it at all, yet his text today is to meet me today or tomorrow to exchange items but he’s never asked for stuff some of which I still have.
He actually texted me and said “hi look at your email.”. I now blocked him from Facebook do but do I meet him or just say drop off the things in my mailbox? The latter seems somewhat horse given he wasn’t terrible but he did miss treat me towards the end of the relationship and I have almost no feelings for him at all at this point. What’s the best course of action?
Considering you are both already in relationships, meeting is inappropriate. Although there is no harm if your new guy is fine with it. I wish I could jump into new relationships so quickly.
The relationship is over. Let him get his own closure without you. Move on and tell him to do the same, if you care to respond. No, No, and absolutely no reason to meet him. He is your ex for a reason! Why didn't you blocked him immediately after the breakup?
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