The only time I've been heartbroken is.... (dating, girl, single)

[artsyguy]

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Have you ever been rejected and not felt any pain? Maybe only mild disappointment that you got over within a day. No big deal right.

Then with other rejections it felt like your life had been destroyed and you became really depressed?

I can honestly say that when guys are direct with me and arn't interested in dating or relationships then I don't feel bad at all. I get over it in a few minutse because I am confident, strong etc.

Then other times when I am talking with guys over the phone and they seem interested, and then we eventually meet. They know I am only into dating and relationships. Then suddenly they don't want me to hang out, meet their friends, they are isolating me, and making me feel uncomfortable, no discussion etc. Then for no reason they stop all interest and reject me. That feels like the worst rejection and makes me the most depressed.

So far, I've been really happy. Not dating and not messing with guys. I've been a happy single gay guy without having to deal with neurotic liar guys.

[pigeonhole]

Being a sentimental romantic (obscene words today), it's my karma to be heartbroken at times.
The worst memory I have is as a young guy: I unexpectedly (didn't believe my luck) bedded a pretty girl that I met at the pool right on the first (and last ) night.
After a fond remembered night, I woke up to find the chick was hastily dressing and then she disappeared.
I was so devastated I didn't even look for a date for several months...