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Old 12-17-2020, 09:46 AM
 
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I dated him 4 months ago for a month.
I still liked him after 4 months. I told him let's be my FWB(friends with benefits) and he said he is not interested right now.
I said what is he interested in and he said let's just text time to time for now.

He is 32, I am 33.

So should I text him or let him go?

 
Old 12-17-2020, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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Let him go.
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:00 AM
 
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I dated him 4 months ago for a month.
I still liked him after 4 months. I told him let's be my FWB(friends with benefits) and he said he is not interested right now.
I said what is he interested in and he said let's just text time to time for now.

He is 32, I am 33.

So should I text him or let him go?
I'd let him go. He's telling you you're at BEST on his back burner. I'm thinking he's already got a FWB, but if that one goes south, he'll keep you in mind.
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:01 AM
 
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I'd let him go. He's telling you you're at BEST on his back burner. I'm thinking he's already got a FWB, but if that one goes south, he'll keep you in mind.
He said he doesn't date anyone right now. So you think there is a chance?
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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He said he doesn't date anyone right now. So you think there is a chance?
Let it go and move on.
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:04 AM
 
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He said he doesn't date anyone right now. So you think there is a chance?
A chance for what?

That he MIGHT have sex with you once in a while?

Why would you even want that?

He's not interested.
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Canada
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You can "text from time to time" is the most polite rejection he can offer.

Move on.
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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He’s not into you.

Let it go.
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:32 AM
 
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He said he doesn't date anyone right now. So you think there is a chance?
I'm not there, so what do I know. But I suspect he's stating a technicality, in that "sure, he's not DATING anyone...but are you really dating someone, when it's a FWB situation?"


At any rate, he's willing to keep you on the back burner for now. Does that sound like a good plan to you?
 
Old 12-17-2020, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I want to have sex with him so bad. Maybe it gives me hope
And yet, with no other obligations, he turned you down for NSA sex. Why waste your time and energy on someone who doesn't want you?
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