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Old 09-08-2021, 03:36 PM
 
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I moved to the big city to study. In my second year at college, I met a girl from my family town. We got along well, smoked cigarettes between every lecture, and spent a lot of time together. In the beginning, we were the only friends because I knew she has a boyfriend in her family town.

Despite this, I found her so attractive. One day we were at the party and broken the first boundary. I kissed her. We explained this to each other. At the next party in my condo, we lost our minds again. She said she had no transport to her flat and stayed with me. This night we had our first sex.

After this, we were closer. We had regular sex and lived like pair. She still had a boyfriend, and I must confess it was a turn-on for me. It was a huge ego trip for me while she wasn't answering her boyfriend's call because we play together. After the year, I thought I wanted her only for myself. She didn't want to break up and hurt her boyfriend. I gave her an ultimatum is she doesn't break up with him I will left. She chose me.

Why do I feel so much weird satisfaction after she left him and she started a relationship with me?
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Old 09-08-2021, 03:53 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Will you feel as much satisfaction when she eventually cheats on you as well? You already know she's a cheater, so it may just be a matter of time ....
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Old 09-08-2021, 05:00 PM
 
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will you feel as much satisfaction when she eventually cheats on you as well? You already know she's a cheater, so it may just be a matter of time ....
^^^this^^^
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Old 09-08-2021, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Will you feel as much satisfaction when she eventually cheats on you as well? You already know she's a cheater, so it may just be a matter of time ....
OP probably thinks - who? me? NEVER! ... lol

YES, she will cheat on him as soon a better guy crosses her path.
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Old 09-08-2021, 07:10 PM
 
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I moved to the big city to study. In my second year at college, I met a girl from my family town. We got along well, smoked cigarettes between every lecture, and spent a lot of time together. In the beginning, we were the only friends because I knew she has a boyfriend in her family town.

Despite this, I found her so attractive. One day we were at the party and broken the first boundary. I kissed her. We explained this to each other. At the next party in my condo, we lost our minds again. She said she had no transport to her flat and stayed with me. This night we had our first sex.

After this, we were closer. We had regular sex and lived like pair. She still had a boyfriend, and I must confess it was a turn-on for me. It was a huge ego trip for me while she wasn't answering her boyfriend's call because we play together. After the year, I thought I wanted her only for myself. She didn't want to break up and hurt her boyfriend. I gave her an ultimatum is she doesn't break up with him I will left. She chose me.

Why do I feel so much weird satisfaction after she left him and she started a relationship with me?
Because you feel like you've WON. Feels pretty powerful, ay? Like you have more power than the other guy does? Like you have more control? Like you're "better" than he was?

It's all about your ego. It was all about ego when she was with you and not answering her boyfriend's calls, and it's all about ego when she ditched her boyfriend to stay with you.

...and, it'll be all about ego when she eventually cheats on YOU.
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Old 09-08-2021, 08:43 PM
 
Location: The ghetto
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Why do I feel so much weird satisfaction after she left him and she started a relationship with me?
It's not weird to feel tremendous satisfaction. Enjoy!
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Old 09-09-2021, 12:14 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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OP, you gotta find better healthier ways to feed that ego.
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Old 09-09-2021, 12:58 AM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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What goes around
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Old 09-09-2021, 03:50 AM
 
Location: Belgrade, Serbia
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Why do I feel so much weird satisfaction after she left him and she started a relationship with me?
Because you are a bad person.
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Old 09-09-2021, 03:53 AM
 
Location: Belgrade, Serbia
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All Women cheat it's just a cold hard fact you need to accept. She'll cheat on you too because that's what they do. It doesn't matter about how rich, alpha or good looking you are even alpha celebrities and athletes can't keep a woman to stay faithful to them. When you start to find out about Female nature and hypergamy you suddenly start to see Women differently. It's no coincidence that 90% of cheating threads on this forum and other forums online and on TV shows about cheaters are Women cheating on Men not the other way around. This is because Women are not capable of loving Men unconditionally regardless of his looks or how successful he is all Men are in the same boat. There's a saying she isn't your girl it's just your turn. This is why more Men are waking up to Female nature and staying single. Of course society and media won't want you to believe that as it will be the destruction of the human race and core family as we know it. They prefer Men to be unaware and go through life with multiple Women with multiple kids from different Dads and keep falling for the same bs Women feed them at the start of relationships. As soon as someone better comes along She'll forget about you and leave you, there's a reason Men commit suicide at a far higher rate than Women and a reason Women initiate divorce 75% of the time. If you can accept this you'll be fine enjoy your temporary gf
This is such nonsense, sorry you were burned once. Get over it, move on.
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