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Originally Posted by Toxic Waltz
In American culture it would be clear that you should move on. In our culture when a woman expresses a lack of interest it is considered very bad form for a man to continue to pursue her. The fact that she said she wasn't interested but said you could keep trying suggests that things may be different in your culture. You're not too likely to get advice that is relevant to your culture from this mostly American forum, especially if we do not know what your culture even is.
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Yep this is what I'm thinking, having been exposed to many cultures I think it could be a case of
she feels no butterfly's but he checks enough of her boxes otherwise, their families get along and she at least likes him which in many cultures is enough for her to eventually accept a marriage with him, in most of the west this relationship would be
DOA at this point, but in many cultures or even some subcultures here in the west
"he checks enough of her boxes ,their families get along and she at least likes him" is a strong enough baseline for marriage to happen. Which may be why she is cool with him pursuing her if he chooses and she may even pick him over someone that
does give her the butterflies but leaves too many boxes unchecked and does not come from a good family.
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