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Old 02-18-2022, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Hallandale Beach, FL
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That was your gaydar going to work for you.
I suppose, lol. I just feel so conflicted about him. I like him a lot and we definitely have a great connection, but I suppose there are a few obstacles. Doesn't hurt to try right?
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Old 02-18-2022, 11:48 AM
 
Location: sumter
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I suppose, lol. I just feel so conflicted about him. I like him a lot and we definitely have a great connection, but I suppose there are a few obstacles. Doesn't hurt to try right?


No, not at all.
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Old 02-20-2022, 04:52 PM
 
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I must say you have one hell of a good friend if he's making that much of an effort to see you and wants to move closer to you. He's clearly attracted to you and you must of made him snap and realize he's not straight he just don't know how to go about it. I would probably would just have a quiet movie night with him have some food and drinks and relax and watch a movie. Do you hug him?


I had similar situations with guys at my job throughout the years but it never went as far as your situation.
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Old 02-20-2022, 10:37 PM
 
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he’s a boobs man. Straight guys are ass man
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Old 02-21-2022, 12:02 PM
 
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I must say you have one hell of a good friend if he's making that much of an effort to see you and wants to move closer to you. He's clearly attracted to you and you must of made him snap and realize he's not straight he just don't know how to go about it. I would probably would just have a quiet movie night with him have some food and drinks and relax and watch a movie. Do you hug him?
I agree with this . Let nature take its course.
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Old 02-22-2022, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Hallandale Beach, FL
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I must say you have one hell of a good friend if he's making that much of an effort to see you and wants to move closer to you. He's clearly attracted to you and you must of made him snap and realize he's not straight he just don't know how to go about it. I would probably would just have a quiet movie night with him have some food and drinks and relax and watch a movie. Do you hug him?


I had similar situations with guys at my job throughout the years but it never went as far as your situation.
Yeah, we hug when we say goodbye/hello. Again we don't live in the same cities, but I will be in his city (my homecity) for 1-2 months this summer. I will try to spend some real good quality time with him then.
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Old 02-22-2022, 07:52 AM
 
Location: Hallandale Beach, FL
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he’s a boobs man. Straight guys are ass man
You would think gay guys are ass men,
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Old 02-22-2022, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Twin Cities (StP)
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what does your gay-dar tell you?
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Old 02-22-2022, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Hallandale Beach, FL
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what does your gay-dar tell you?
Yes, it tells me he is. But then when I hear him say he is a boob guy or says things I need to find myself a wife here, I am kind of like "maybe he is not?"

But there are actions vs. words.
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Old 02-22-2022, 01:15 PM
 
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But there are actions vs. words.
Again, have a nice quiet dinner for two and a relaxing time, let nature take its course.
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