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So went out w/ this woman who I met at a bar. Lots of chemistry, we hooked up. A few days went by and I text her. She responds very distantly. I followed up to see if she wanted to hang out again. But then I got no response (been over a day). What gives? How do I play this from here? Give a call one and then give up forever? For what it's worth, she's young (22).
So you met her at a bar, had sex, went your separate ways, and now you are surprised that she doesn't want any further interaction with you? Isn't that the whole point of hooking up with someone at a bar?
It looks like she was just looking for a one night stand and not a relationship. Take no response as a response in the sense that she doesn't want to see you again. The way you play this is to do nothing and move on.
OP's limited posting history all pertains to hooking up with someone and then getting zero response. Not sure why OP is looking for different responses.
Obviously, that's the only time I post on here is when I have a question like this
OP, do you know how women's sexuality works? It would seem not, going by the ghostings. The women are voting with their feet.
Are you attentive to your partner in the moment? Do you know which buttons to push, and how? You're aware, that for a lot of women, it takes a lot more than the basic act, right? Do you even know whether any of the women you've had these ONS with got off for real?
Sorry, but your circumstances beg the question. If you knew what you were doing, they'd be back.
So went out w/ this woman who I met at a bar. Lots of chemistry, we hooked up. A few days went by and I text her. She responds very distantly. I followed up to see if she wanted to hang out again. But then I got no response (been over a day). What gives? How do I play this from here? Give a call one and then give up forever? For what it's worth, she's young (22).
Maybe she is playing the same game as you and lets you wait a few days.
OP, lesson for next time - if you want to see someone again, text her the next day or same day. Don't wait. If you would wait a few days and then text again, you would be deleted from my phone by that time and I'd be angry to have had fallen for you.
Don't wait.
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