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Originally Posted by Mikala43
Generally speaking, when you combine "sexual + aggressive" and view it as normal...... therein lies a problem.
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I just feel like we leapt into a bit of a minefield there because I'm not even sure what exactly that poster even meant by "predators."
I feel like 99% of the time what women are trying to avoid when holding off for sex, is the situation where a guy is just (in her eyes) a player, and the minute after he has sex with her, he's done and off to the next novelty. Meanwhile she was feelin' some feels and now it's heartbreak time.
But that guy isn't a predator. He might be a jerk, if he said things he didn't mean or led her to believe that there was more to it than a liaison, but... Not a predator.