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Your boyfriend is a bum. Don't expect him to change or to marry you. Is it too late for an abortion? If you plan on keeping the child you can probably expect to be its total support.
I didn’t leave my child behind - I came here for a great opportunity and always planned to be with my daughter again.
Will you be graduated before the birth? I mean, you left your daughter because it is easier to attend college without also raising a child, and now you have an infant on the way. I don't think you can really count on the child's father, so....?
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Do any of you know about birth control and planned parenthood, and took precautions ? Or you came to the US for the "great opportunity" to get pregnant and stay here?
It seems that the pregnancy wasn't planned or discussed with your partner. You clearly surprised him with the news. What are you expecting now?
Do you have Plan A or B?
BTW:
Just because you report everything on social media doesn't mean he is OK with that and wants to participate.
Do any of you know about birth control and planned parenthood, and took precautions ? Or you came to the US for the "great opportunity" to get pregnant and stay here?
It seems that the pregnancy wasn't planned or discussed with your partner. You clearly surprised him with the news. What are you expecting now?
Do you have Plan A or B?
BTW:
Just because you report everything on social media doesn't mean he is OK with that and wants to participate.
Yes, we know about birth control - I was pregnant before many years ago lol. No, pregnancy wasn’t planned with him so yes, it’s a surprise for him. He was living with his parents when we met because he wasn’t getting any acting jobs.
I’m expecting for us to hopefully get married to be a family. Also, I know just because I’m acknowledging our pregnancy online doesn’t mean he has to. My concern is that he talks about his past traumas online and up until the last few weeks he had this one picture of his ex up (broke up years ago) where he talked about how he’d always love her and thanked her for being such a good friend even though they’re no longer together, so he has no problem being vulnerable and being public about things, so that begs me to question why he hasn’t done the same with our baby.
Most people don't announce pregnancies until at least 3 months, perhaps that is why he is hesitant. In general though, absolutely ridiculous to gauge how excited he is about your pregnancy based on his social media. More importantly how does he act in person about your pregnancy? Is he supportive/excited?
Do you expect him to get a real job? In this country men his age do not tend to live with their parents. That he is so old and not self supporting doesn't bode well. Can you support him and this child? He's obviously not going to be able to provide child support.
Chances are he is not dealing with the realities of having a child because he's hoping the problem will magically go away. It doesn't sound like he's ever dealt with reality. He's still trying to make it as an actor while letting his parents support him. Does he have drug or alcohol problems as well? Your boyfriend is what we call a man child. He's an adult with the mentality of a little boy.
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