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Old 03-23-2024, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Was there a contest to see how many red flags you could have before even meeting?
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Old 03-23-2024, 10:28 PM
 
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How would such a relationship work, if they might be more attracted to someone much older? Aren’t men and women with this “issue” looking for an older more experienced significant other? If so, you can’t both be it.
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Old 03-24-2024, 12:11 AM
 
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It’s a good thing you asked us.

Nicely tell the guy you aren’t interested and block him. It won’t be as easy as you think.
Yes it won't especially since I got used to messaging with him almost the whole day for 2 weeks

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Was there a contest to see how many red flags you could have before even meeting?
What's funny is he calls me "Miss Red Flag" just because I won't give in to his demands easily (such as my personal mobile number, additional photos, where I studied, area where I live etc) I don't think withholding those information are red flags?
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Old 03-24-2024, 06:09 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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What's funny is he calls me "Miss Red Flag" just because I won't give in to his demands easily (such as my personal mobile number, additional photos, where I studied, area where I live etc) I don't think withholding those information are red flags?
It is NOT funny,
They ARE red flags.
You should have blocked him by now... you are still overthinking.
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Old 03-24-2024, 07:31 AM
 
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Yes it won't especially since I got used to messaging with him almost the whole day for 2 weeks



What's funny is he calls me "Miss Red Flag" just because I won't give in to his demands easily (such as my personal mobile number, additional photos, where I studied, area where I live etc) I don't think withholding those information are red flags?
How old are you?
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Old 03-24-2024, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I know this is the Romantic Relationships forum, but in what universe is putting up with this guy's negging and red flags better than being alone?
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Old 03-24-2024, 08:05 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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How old are you?
mid 40s and desperate...
https://www.city-data.com/forum/rela...-children.html

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I know this is the Romantic Relationships forum, but in what universe is putting up with this guy's negging and red flags better than being alone?
See her thread above.
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Old 03-24-2024, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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What's funny is he calls me "Miss Red Flag" just because I won't give in to his demands easily (such as my personal mobile number, additional photos, where I studied, area where I live etc) I don't think withholding those information are red flags?
I meant both of you. The fact you are still interacting with the guy is a huge red flag on you. Honestly, you may be scammed with this guy. He's already figured out he can say anything to you and you'll take it.
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Old 03-24-2024, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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OF COURSE it could work out.

Who's your momma??!
Who's your daddy??!
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Old 03-24-2024, 11:51 AM
 
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What would you tell a friend or a sister to do if she was in your situation with this guy? If your answer is he sounds wonderful, go for it - then go for it. Give him everything he wants. If your answer is this man is not acting respectfully, cease contact - then do that.
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