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Eh, I've hit on plenty of men. Some of them have become my friends I can only think of three times it ended up with an actual date, and only one time did it go to a second date. The rest of the time either they laughed at me, made fun of me with their buddies or tried to touch me inappropriately because they though me being nice and flirting was a sign that I was open and ready for business. When you combine a social personality with being tall, busty and covered in tattoos I simply don't think it sends out the same message than if I was 5' tall and thin/cute.
I'm super social and a big flirter...I've never been afraid to talk to a stranger or ask for a phone number. I start conversations with random people ALL the time... when me and my mom hang out, it's crazy because we become friends with everyone in our vicinity We're both the exact same way.
Unfortunately, none of that has ever turned into a relationship or even 'dating'. I don't think men are afraid of me, I just think they aren't into a woman that looks like me and that's fine. Like I've mentioned before, I've had plenty of men tell me I'd be the perfect girlfriend if only I was physically different. I actually just had a conversation with a long time male friend and he said he 'wished he was more into me because I'm perfect' after breaking up with his last girlfriend. But he's into super petite blondes so it's a no-go for me
How do guys feel about the woman making the first move?
It could be as harmless as being the first person to say hey or it could have more intent behind it such as a woman asking a guy if he wants to go out to eat, go somewhere with her to an event, etc.
Love it. Shy guys would.
I have never heard this being a red flag from guys though.
If a lot of women did that, then a lot of guys and girls would not be single.
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I can only think of three times it ended up with an actual date, and only one time did it go to a second date. The rest of the time either they laughed at me, made fun of me with their buddies or tried to touch me inappropriately because they though me being nice and flirting was a sign that I was open and ready for business. When you combine a social personality with being tall, busty and covered in tattoos I simply don't think it sends out the same message than if I was 5' tall and thin/cute. 
We're both the exact same way. 
